I'm pretty sure you have ALL been through this, i have too, but not nearly as much to remember what i need to do or have experience of... Anyways...
Im in a long term relationship with my girl friend, who i have been going out for a year and 3 months. Shes a highschool senior graduating this year. Im out of school, thats why i dont post in the highschool forumn, im 18 years old.
Soo.. The day i got kicked out (4 days ago from my apartment, i now live with my mom), i kinda argued and fought with my gf because she didnt seem to care that me and my dad got in a fist fight, and she was just falling alseep on the phone. IT pissed me off cus it made me feel as if she wasnt "there" for me. Anyways. the next day, I called her twice from an unknown phone number, but she never called my cell phone or anything all day. Next day, I call her, she seems a bit weird... We talk.. And i tell her the bad news that i might move to california. And i kept on going on and on, how i didnt wnat ot because i love her (my entire family is in california, ill be the only one left in vegas, im currently staying with my mom).. Anyways.. I told her there are ways to stay in vegas. She said to just go to california. That pissed me off, cus it made me feel like she didnt love me or didnt care either way or didnt care about keeping this relationship together. ( i went on about how much i loved her and if she was serious about us i would do anything to stay in vegas, basically i was looking for her to fight for me to stay here show me she cared and wanted me to, but she didnt even talk anything about her love for me or her feelings and just told that i should go to cali and we'd still be together and i felt like she didnt love me at all) She then makes me total AFC and makes me really sad, and she told me we both have growing up to do, and she told me she doesnt see how i can be a husband cus she some how came to a conclusion that i will be poor all my life, and she wants a man who can support her and has money. And it made me see her as a total b1tch like shes a gold digger.. anyways, i didnt call her that but i implied it.
OKAY time to get to the point... I been calling my gf lately, trying to talk to her, but she just sits there quiet on the phone, like shes atotal stranger, she doesnt even act like she loves me anymore.. and i want to work things out.. she says if i go to california we'd still be together but i doubt it. i was looking for some sort of convncment from her to have me stay in vegas, cus if shes serious about our relationship i would put up with it. But seeing how she seems to not evne give a crap.. i guess ill have to see what i do. But when i talk to my gf she doesnt even act like my gf anymre.. i talk to her.. and it seems so slow.. the conversation... so dead.. like.. nothing is happening.. she never makes an effort to keep the convo rolling... and i dont know whats up?
Do i just forget about her and move on, and let her come back to me when shes stops being a little btch, or do i make an effort to work things out and get her back again.....?
Im in a long term relationship with my girl friend, who i have been going out for a year and 3 months. Shes a highschool senior graduating this year. Im out of school, thats why i dont post in the highschool forumn, im 18 years old.
Soo.. The day i got kicked out (4 days ago from my apartment, i now live with my mom), i kinda argued and fought with my gf because she didnt seem to care that me and my dad got in a fist fight, and she was just falling alseep on the phone. IT pissed me off cus it made me feel as if she wasnt "there" for me. Anyways. the next day, I called her twice from an unknown phone number, but she never called my cell phone or anything all day. Next day, I call her, she seems a bit weird... We talk.. And i tell her the bad news that i might move to california. And i kept on going on and on, how i didnt wnat ot because i love her (my entire family is in california, ill be the only one left in vegas, im currently staying with my mom).. Anyways.. I told her there are ways to stay in vegas. She said to just go to california. That pissed me off, cus it made me feel like she didnt love me or didnt care either way or didnt care about keeping this relationship together. ( i went on about how much i loved her and if she was serious about us i would do anything to stay in vegas, basically i was looking for her to fight for me to stay here show me she cared and wanted me to, but she didnt even talk anything about her love for me or her feelings and just told that i should go to cali and we'd still be together and i felt like she didnt love me at all) She then makes me total AFC and makes me really sad, and she told me we both have growing up to do, and she told me she doesnt see how i can be a husband cus she some how came to a conclusion that i will be poor all my life, and she wants a man who can support her and has money. And it made me see her as a total b1tch like shes a gold digger.. anyways, i didnt call her that but i implied it.
OKAY time to get to the point... I been calling my gf lately, trying to talk to her, but she just sits there quiet on the phone, like shes atotal stranger, she doesnt even act like she loves me anymore.. and i want to work things out.. she says if i go to california we'd still be together but i doubt it. i was looking for some sort of convncment from her to have me stay in vegas, cus if shes serious about our relationship i would put up with it. But seeing how she seems to not evne give a crap.. i guess ill have to see what i do. But when i talk to my gf she doesnt even act like my gf anymre.. i talk to her.. and it seems so slow.. the conversation... so dead.. like.. nothing is happening.. she never makes an effort to keep the convo rolling... and i dont know whats up?
Do i just forget about her and move on, and let her come back to me when shes stops being a little btch, or do i make an effort to work things out and get her back again.....?
you running after her will only push her further away..
