ahh im stuck

[badgm's57]

only if i knew how to wrk this out.

okay now for some reason im always good at meeting and talking to gals that i like but for some reason i can't never get it out of my guts to ask for thier number ??? [it's kinda like jim carrys lair lair expirinace] :nervous: :nervous: .
its always" well i will see you some other time " or something like that.

but you just can't ask them out of a random convertsion,or can you?

like ''hey you know i like you can have your number"

or ''before i leave ,can have your cell number and back at you again sometime"

either way im n to sure ,I can do it ,just not to sure how to go about it .

any way give some outlines to go by,example's

oh yeah ,these are not the kind in bars or clubs[nonslutty]

 

[Grimple]

Yes.

The great thing about asking for a number is you can do it anytime.. anywhere. Sometimes the spontaneous thing can work in your favor. I just did a number close not even 20 mins ago. Last thing I said her to her: "Oh, and whats your number?". Just say something like that. You don't have to get all cheesey and be like 'Golly gee Mary Sue, I sure did have a swell time with you tonight! I would sure like to talk you more.. can I have your number?" Ahaha, okay.. like anyone talks like that. But dude, just out of nowhere be like "Can I have your number?". Simple as that.

 

[Anomalous]

Listen sport,

Girls give away their numbers to anyone!! There is no shame in asking for a number. There is no need to make a social interaction into a routine. Outlines? Look buddy its only a few words to say.

If you know you have a connection with her, (she's into the convo), then you have a 100% change of getting her digits. I noticed in your examples you keep saying "Can I..." Should you ever start a question with "Can I?"

F-NO. This is submissive behavior. Instead say,"Give me your number and we'll finish this convo. later."

BAM Got the digits.

You are welcome.

 

[Grimple]

^ Yeah, this guy is right. Make sure the convo is going smoothly, and she seems somewhat interested and just ask her.

The whole "Can I" thing is kind of AFC-ish, but it's not that big of a deal and if she likes you she will probably give it to you anyway.

Girls give their numbers to guys that aren't even really attracted to either.. so don't get all excited just because you got her number.. doesn't mean you're getting into her panties just yeah. Getting the number is just %50 of the game my friend.

Good luck.

 

[badgm's57]

okay on bigi deal got it .

afc,ish?hey i show respect for my fem's

i not gonna be bad ass about it .

 

[OMGWTF]

'Golly gee Mary Sue, I sure did have a swell time with you tonight! I would sure like to talk you more.. can I have your number?"

This works. Many girls think it's funny. Clearly you need to not be taking yourself seriously when you say this.

 

[zerocelcius]

Your not asking for her Home address!!

It isn't a big deal.

Here is the game plan my friend.

When you are going for the number use one line. ONE LINE each time Until you get it. A good line is this: "I have to go, I'll give you a Call" Hand her a pen or hand her your cell.

Use that same line until you are addicted to the butterflies. Those butterflies are adrenaline rushes. People pay good money for that.

A little timing trick is to hand her the phone or pen a little before you say you will call.

Like this....

"I have to go..." Hand phone, she grabs it "I'll give you a call".glance away.."sometime." See if you aren't looking when she gets why you handed her the phone it doesnt give her a chance to deny you.

Not saying it is going to work every time, 'cause a lot has to do to the chat up that point and how you ask... no shaky voice!!!