"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ah love! "Father Clings to Life After Brutal Killings"

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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wow theres some pretty interesting statistics about age groups of offenders. heres the chart (Its labled "Homicide offending rates followed a similar pattern"):

http://www.ojp.usdoj.gov/bjs/homicide/teens.htm

There defintely was a rash of adolecent violence in the 1990s. What the hell was going on between 1985 and 1995?! Recently, though, it looks like crime for both 14-17 year olds and 18-24 year olds is about the same now as it was in 1975.

I wish it had statistics for earlier... like going back to 1950 or before, but there seems to be a difference between public opinion and reality.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
What, being religious?

The fact that this was written about in the Bible proves my point on its own. I could give you many more examples to show how you are wrong, but it should be obvious at this point. So, even if I were religious it still wouldn't discredit me in the least. :p
 
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Quiksilver said:
poor father, feel bad for him.

In one night, his house was burned down, his daughter became a murderer, his wife was killed, and his two boys were killed.

That's a hard pill to swallow...

It is truly amazing how quickly ones life can be turned upside down. I wonder what he will do with himself now.

On the flip side, I honestly have to wonder if perhaps he brought this upon himself... it was his daughter who did this, after all. Are we not responsible for our children?
 
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