"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ah...girl invites me to stay at her home

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ok so i just met this chick a while back, and after turning my charm waaay up-I have gotten her to warm up to me...after discussing my current housing situation with her (it's chaos), she simply stated, "its ok ... you can come stay with me."

now, is she being friendly and comforting/ a giant flirt or is this an invite of sorts? Hmmm...am I just a horndog? please help an old chap out.

oh yeah-lately I've been told by some girls "ur a great guy"


now...is this good or bad? hmmm....me confused...;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ok i been reading the dj bible n' shiet and been looking at tips-and yeah-i am glad i did. good stuff. all true. i knew i woulda' come to those conclusions eventually-after many,many stupid decisions-anyway, someone give me tips on this broad-what does she really want...and i like the advice so keep throwing it my way-hey i dont mind rough criticism as long as u get ur point across.
 
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Originally posted by Capo De Tutti Capi
she simply stated, "its ok ... you can come stay with me."
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She's a good girl .................. giving you a 'humane' approach by lending her part in your woes.

Do take care :)

 
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