"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ah...girl invites me to stay at her home

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ok so i just met this chick a while back, and after turning my charm waaay up-I have gotten her to warm up to me...after discussing my current housing situation with her (it's chaos), she simply stated, "its ok ... you can come stay with me."

now, is she being friendly and comforting/ a giant flirt or is this an invite of sorts? Hmmm...am I just a horndog? please help an old chap out.

oh yeah-lately I've been told by some girls "ur a great guy"


now...is this good or bad? hmmm....me confused...;)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ok i been reading the dj bible n' shiet and been looking at tips-and yeah-i am glad i did. good stuff. all true. i knew i woulda' come to those conclusions eventually-after many,many stupid decisions-anyway, someone give me tips on this broad-what does she really want...and i like the advice so keep throwing it my way-hey i dont mind rough criticism as long as u get ur point across.
 

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Originally posted by Capo De Tutti Capi
she simply stated, "its ok ... you can come stay with me."

She's a good girl .................. giving you a 'humane' approach by lending her part in your woes.

Do take care :)

 
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