pyros
Master Don Juan
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Hi.
I'd like to know how do you do when you disagree with your gf, or she disagrees with you.
For example,
you're at the mall, you want to get a new vacuumn cleaner. You talked about it with your gf and you said you would spend 80$ max.
Once you're there, she sees another vacuum cleaner which is 95 bucks. YOu say to her that you both agreeded to spend 80 bucks, but she says you're wrong, that you said 100 bucks, blah blah blah...(the point here is not the money, it is that you both do not agree).
You keep firm, and say: 'honey, Im not gonna spend more than 80$, I told you that, sorry but you're wrong. We talked but you do not remember well.'
She gets upset, says that you're the one who's wrong, the arguments grows more, she says that you never do what she asks for (which is totally false, I'm the one to give in 70% of the time) and she decides to walk away from you, leaving the mall. Then you get in the car and yell to her: 'I'll be here for another 10 mins, if you're not back by then, I'll just leave'.
Then 10 mins later she returns, but she gives you silence treatment for more than one day.
This happens from time to time, I mean, situations in which she gets upset, you both disagree, she says you're the one who's wrong, and then gets mad, and gives you silence treatment.
I mean, what do you do when you want to do A, she wants to do B?
you normally agree to do something in between, or B, but sometimes you just dont want to agree because she's just wrong! and it is very difficult that she decides to do A, because she's just stubborn as hell.
Opinions? Ideas?
Thank you.
I'd like to know how do you do when you disagree with your gf, or she disagrees with you.
For example,
you're at the mall, you want to get a new vacuumn cleaner. You talked about it with your gf and you said you would spend 80$ max.
Once you're there, she sees another vacuum cleaner which is 95 bucks. YOu say to her that you both agreeded to spend 80 bucks, but she says you're wrong, that you said 100 bucks, blah blah blah...(the point here is not the money, it is that you both do not agree).
You keep firm, and say: 'honey, Im not gonna spend more than 80$, I told you that, sorry but you're wrong. We talked but you do not remember well.'
She gets upset, says that you're the one who's wrong, the arguments grows more, she says that you never do what she asks for (which is totally false, I'm the one to give in 70% of the time) and she decides to walk away from you, leaving the mall. Then you get in the car and yell to her: 'I'll be here for another 10 mins, if you're not back by then, I'll just leave'.
Then 10 mins later she returns, but she gives you silence treatment for more than one day.
This happens from time to time, I mean, situations in which she gets upset, you both disagree, she says you're the one who's wrong, and then gets mad, and gives you silence treatment.
I mean, what do you do when you want to do A, she wants to do B?
you normally agree to do something in between, or B, but sometimes you just dont want to agree because she's just wrong! and it is very difficult that she decides to do A, because she's just stubborn as hell.
Opinions? Ideas?
Thank you.
