Hey i have a question... i dunno whats been going on the past few weeks but ive run into a crapload of aggressivg woman at clubs, Last night i was out with my guy friends and 2 girl friends and i was not looking to hook up at all when im standing there and a girl comes up and slams into me she proceeds to say sorry and i just said jokingly yeah you better be,,, she smiled and danced away next think i know this girl comes up and freakin grabs me by the belt buckle and attempts to pull me away from my friends... it sort of ticked me off so i told her i dont feel like dancing and she pretty much begged me to dance with her i did and tried to get back to my friends when she grabbed my arm and told me she was going to buy me a drink.... i declined and went back to my friends as the night went on this girl continued to annoy the hell out of me... im pretty sure i handled it the best way i could... it was just an awkward situation because i have never had a girl be this damn aggressive... what is somethings i could do to get her away if this ever happens again ?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Agressive woman awkward situation
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Okay... Women are insisting you dance with them and then they want to buy you drinks???
We're gonna need more details here, because personally I don't see a problem. If you don't want to dance and be picked up and just want to have a quiet night with your friends, then I would suggest your find quieter places like the local pub to hang out. Otherwise you are going to have to expect this kind of behaviour from boozed up girls who have a dancefloor handy.
Or you could tell her that your boyfriend gets jealous and wink at one of your mates...
We're gonna need more details here, because personally I don't see a problem. If you don't want to dance and be picked up and just want to have a quiet night with your friends, then I would suggest your find quieter places like the local pub to hang out. Otherwise you are going to have to expect this kind of behaviour from boozed up girls who have a dancefloor handy.
Or you could tell her that your boyfriend gets jealous and wink at one of your mates...
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Why not say "No thanks, I'm not interested."
.lol yeah i told this girl no thanks numerous times.. she wasnt anything near a 7... she just kept comming at me, some of her friends were hot so i did not want to tell the chick to F off... I also did not want to accept the free drink and walk away.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.