Can you explain more about these emotional swings?? More so the listen but don't take it to heart.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Agree/Disagree - the reason "nice guy types" fail with women is...
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Can you explain more about these emotional swings?? More so the listen but don't take it to heart.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Meaning, when your girl gets in a emotional state where she's over-reacting to something you did or said, you don't get emotional about it, you remain calm and in your masculine state.
Her:A real gentlemen would walk on the side of the street closest to the street.
Me:yeah
Her:No really, I have a problem with that(voice getting louder) I don't like guys who don't know how to properly treat a women.
Me: changing subject) man I'm hungry as hell we need to go to five guys restaurant and get some burgers.
Her:don't change the subject dude! I'm being serious right now! I feel like your not taking me serious, it might not be a big deal to you but it is to Me!
Me: it's s big deal to you huh? Yeah I noticed smirking at her.
Her: you know what forget it! You don't care how I feel
Me:matter fact, let's go to ihop
True story.
You don't play into her games or emotional outburst, in other words, her emotional state has no effect on your emotional state.
This is just one of many examples.
Every men has inherent personality traits that belongs to either 1 of the 4 quadrants.
Every women has inherent personality traits that belongs to all 4 quadrants but more often then not leans towards 1.
Complicated? That's the root of their swings. In one moment they can display tendencies of a motivator, an intellectual, a doer or an expressive personality. These makes women excellent at multitasking and a genius at manipulation.
In her mood swings, just listen to her, she's trying to figure out what's bothering her, weaving her way through all 4 personalities. It doesn't make much sense for a man but it does for her. It's their thought process.
So when women go through their moods, and they **** with us, were supposed to not react negatively period??
React negatively by arguing ?
How does that profit you?
A man must always be profitable in all situations.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
It's simmering with rages of unfulfilled lust...
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My take on this is there is a difference between legitimate nice/genuine guys and the "nice guys" that many refer to finishing last.
"Nice guys" are the ones who do just about anything to get the attention of a female, often in a passive manipulative way. Think about the guy who stays "friends" with a female that he is interested in but never made a move on. He'll listen to her troubles with guys and be a shoulder to cry on.
A legitimate nice guy will have traits that are seen as attractive by well adjusted women. A man who is considerate of others, reliable, generous and all around has good intentions is a very attractive prospect, being a respectable man is a good thing. Men like this are pretty consistent and will not bring much drama into a relationship, something that a lot of women from trashy backgrounds would not be used to. Guys like this would be considered "boring" by such women, also a lot of girls in their teens and early 20s would feel the same way as well.
"Nice guys" are the ones who do just about anything to get the attention of a female, often in a passive manipulative way. Think about the guy who stays "friends" with a female that he is interested in but never made a move on. He'll listen to her troubles with guys and be a shoulder to cry on.
A legitimate nice guy will have traits that are seen as attractive by well adjusted women. A man who is considerate of others, reliable, generous and all around has good intentions is a very attractive prospect, being a respectable man is a good thing. Men like this are pretty consistent and will not bring much drama into a relationship, something that a lot of women from trashy backgrounds would not be used to. Guys like this would be considered "boring" by such women, also a lot of girls in their teens and early 20s would feel the same way as well.