"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Slutty girl or very interested?

I met this girl last thursday in the club. Turns out we went to the same school like eight years ago. Shes a cute girl and all but has tattoos and piercings not a freak like gothic or anything.

Well sunday night she told me to come over to her house cuz she was cookin. So i go over there with one of my boys cuz her roomate was there too. We just chilld out and watched a movie. I know she likes me alot.

The very next night(last night) i invited her over to my house so we could hang out again. Well by the end of the night she was trying to seduce me. Touchin me and stuff runnin her fingers through my hair and whatnot. So im just playin it cool ****y and funny, not overly attracted to her. So i take her in my room and shes all over me kissin and stuff. But i stopped her and told her i had to take a physical the next day so i couldnt have sex.(lying)

One reason i stopped her is cuz she had some reakin a$$ breath. I mean terrible. And she smokes.

The other reason is i was thinkin how easy it was. I didnt even have to really try and put a move on her. I was wonderin how many other guys she might have done this too.

Anybody ever have the same thing happen?
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Leave it alone!

You get two positives with this:

1) No more worries about her having STDs

2) You boost your confidence in that you get to turn women down. This puts you into the DJ mode becuase YOU choose who you want, not the other way around.

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Well you could pass her a breath mint but you have to wonder if her breath stinks then what else does...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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it wont be the first girl ive turned down. last month a similar thing happened. girl was all over me and was attractive i just wasnt.
 
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i dont know if she just really likes me that much or what. i just dont really trust girls that are willin to give it up that quick
 
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i dont know if she just really likes me that much or what. i just dont really trust girls that are willin to give it up that quick
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Have you ever thought that maybe your GAY. Not that theres anythign wrong with that.

P.S Bad breath ewwwww i cant stand bad breath. I would have told her to get the fu*k out of my place and gave her $20 and said "b*cth go out buy your self some listerine and dental floss".
 
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Definitely not gay. and there is something wrong with being gay.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ok whatever you think man. Just dont start verbaly bashing gays infrontof me.
 
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