"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Aggressive Girl

rrrrr

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I don't know if "aggressive girl" is the correct term but it's the term I'll use. It's a girl I work with and she started not too long ago. She is 24. She likes hanging around me and gives me pretty good attention but at the same time, she takes stuff from my desk and says she's borrowing it, and moves things around to annoy me, tries to trip me, and punches me... It's not that she is really annoying me because what she is doing (like moving papers and pens around) wouldn't really bother anyone but I can see that's her goal, to at least kind of tease me or bother me. This girl is becoming more violent by the day. I'm confused about what to do. I guess I need to figure out why she is doing these things. Is it for attention or is this a test for manliness or what? I don't know if I'm supposed to act like a jerk to impress her or joke around about it. Or maybe this is just how she treats people she likes (she told me a few times she likes me, in a kind of joking way), I don't know. Yes I did flirt with her, then this messing with my stuff and taking my stuff started. Either way I need to figure out the best way to handle this. I have never dealt with a girl that acted like this.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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rrrrr

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After reading back at this I definitely need to show some balls, I just don't know how to do it with style. I don't think treating her as I would a guy would work. But this is definitely a new one for me.
 

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Hey Rrrr, I see the reason why she is becoming more violent. She wants your attention. By not giving her any, she'll become more desperate in trying. If you are interested, take some action. She is waiting for it.
 
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