I don't know if "aggressive girl" is the correct term but it's the term I'll use. It's a girl I work with and she started not too long ago. She is 24. She likes hanging around me and gives me pretty good attention but at the same time, she takes stuff from my desk and says she's borrowing it, and moves things around to annoy me, tries to trip me, and punches me... It's not that she is really annoying me because what she is doing (like moving papers and pens around) wouldn't really bother anyone but I can see that's her goal, to at least kind of tease me or bother me. This girl is becoming more violent by the day. I'm confused about what to do. I guess I need to figure out why she is doing these things. Is it for attention or is this a test for manliness or what? I don't know if I'm supposed to act like a jerk to impress her or joke around about it. Or maybe this is just how she treats people she likes (she told me a few times she likes me, in a kind of joking way), I don't know. Yes I did flirt with her, then this messing with my stuff and taking my stuff started. Either way I need to figure out the best way to handle this. I have never dealt with a girl that acted like this.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Aggressive Girl
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