aggresiveness?

[Buck Naked]

How much is too much? I'm presistent sometimes, but whats wrong with that. On friday night at the bar, i went after the girl ive liked for 3 yrs. She was surrounded by her friends, but oh well. I went up to her said hi (we were on the dance floor), she is a quiet person so i wasnt expecting much. She didnt seemed turned off b/c she could have easily moved away with one of her friends. I went up to her again, this time one of her friends i know introduced us, we did the usual hand shake bit, and gave our hello's, about 2 minutes later i put my arm around her. She didnt seemed uncomfortable bc she did nt move it or leave. My question is, how much is too aggresive?

 

[Oxide]

Buck buck buck. Did this girl ever say "no" or "Im not comfortable?".

The usual process is A>B>C>D
you dont stop at A if u can go to B, get it? So after the arm around her, you go for the kiss.... get it? depends on where you are too tho, i woudnt go to sex in the middle of a club.....actually, hell yeah i would.

 

[Buck Naked]

I probably should have mentioned i was kinda drunk when i went after her (Leah). Just the loud drunk, not the falling over drunk. But your right Oxide, she never did say she was uncomfortable, she didnt even move or push me away. Even her friends thought nothing of my presense.
It was the damnest thing last week. A friend of the girl i like, came on to me at the bar. I was sittng there, and she came over to me and started rubbing my back and said "hi". Maybe she was drunk, another part of me thought she was testing the water for her friend (the girl i like). I am a firm believer in the quote, "Where there's smoke, there's fire".

Like i mentioned b4, this girl is out-going, but on the quieter side. Does anyone know hoe preoceed with quiet girls, not shy, but quiet.

 

[LostbutFound]

Yeah watch out for the girl trying to test you there. It always happens even when you least expect it.

As far as the night at the bar. She probably was a little scared by you being drunk. You said you were LOUD drunk, even that can scare girls.

As far as the comfortable thing...it all depends. Yes its quite clear if a girl says "no" or "im uncomfortable" but some girls wont even go there. Some will just stay quite and not say anything.

For instance, I went on a party bus to Atlantic City this weekend and on the bus were some hot girls that my friends cousin was friends with. So we start B.S.'n with them and there was this one girl that was smokin. She was talkin to us and 2 other girls that were talking with us...and she kept complaining that this other guy on the bus was hitting on her and she felt really uncomfortable...Now she said that to us, but she never let the guy know...her one friend said you need to tell him that...but she was so shy that she couldnt and she just let him do whatever (we were on a bus, not like she could walk away)

The point is this...just because they dont come straight out with it and say "no" or "im uncomfortable" doesnt mean they are liking what you are doing....Some girls are just too afraid to confront you

 

[Buck Naked]

She never said she was uncomfortable, in fact, she came closer to me, thats when i put my arm around her. My point was, Leah could have easily left with one of her friends, girls do that to me all the time. They say there going ot the bar or some bs like that

 

[Mr.Hash wid da Stash]

Leah digs you. If she didn't like it she would would have distanced herself from you buddy, com prende?

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Originally posted by Mr.Hash wid da Stash
Leah digs you. If she didn't like it she would would have distanced herself from you buddy, com prende?

LOL...Leah DOES NOT dig him!!! He's liked her for 3 freakin' years!!! I think if something was EVER going to happen between them it would have happened by now. Unless of course Leah has no idea that you've liked her all this time.




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