"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ages 14-15 Too Early To DJ?

Ballure

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This forum has benefited me... releasing the fustration I had whenever it came to girls. However, I've noticed most of the people in this forum are juniors, seniors, and college students... but that many of you arent as obliged and content when people my age post questions...take The-Tigers post for example. Ive read the replies that many made, and some say these DJ theories dont apply to my age. Im a bit mature for my age (15), and I respect a lot of ya (TonyTheTiger, Nocturnal..etc.)... and I was wondering if yall experienced one can give me some USEFUL advice (read the BIBLE... useful... but not on this topic)... Thanks!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Blackgame

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please i started researching this stuff when i was 12 your never to young to learn
read gunwitch method 1 and 2,3 is a wast of time. apply it to your life and go from there ,you don't need all that other stuff (CF negs ect ect)
 
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Personally, I feel that a lot of the stuff in the bible isn't suitable for people that haven't yet developed mentally yet. However, if you feel you are strong enough and intelligent enough to draw the right conclusions at a younger age you will benefit from this quite a bit. I do however advise you to keep on trying out this stuff in your life and keeping your life as active as you possibly can.

You can only live your youth once, make sure you have as much fun as possible and not to stress too much about meeting girls.
 

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the reason 14 and younger is too young to apply these techniques is not because i dont think yall dont have the mentality for it, nobody knows if you do or dont. But the main reason that i think that 14 is too young is bc youll probablly be macking on other 14 years old and i dont think that at 14 years old, girls would be bored with all the normal AFC stuff as a more mature girls would be due to the years of accumulation of AFC guys.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I started reading a few weeks after my 14th birthday. Its a shame they deleted the bible I posted - "The high School Don Juan Bible" - because it had all the great info for high school students, by high school students... and the really necessary stuff from the main forums.

At that age just focus on self improvement. Girls have NO CLUE what they want, and its a WASTE OF TIME to chase after them. Just make simple approaches on any girl you want to talk to, if they seem interested get their #s. Go on group dates, make sure and HAVE FUN with the whole DJ experience - the perspective your develop while you finish puberty is a key influence on how you handle women for the rest of your life.
 

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Age 14-15 IS THE PERFECT AGE TO START YOUR QUEST TO BECOME A DJ!

once you enter college you will have years of experience under your belt from high school which will help you get college chicks (which are way hotter than high school girls)
 

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Originally posted by TonyTheTigerOI
I started reading a few weeks after my 14th birthday. Its a shame they deleted the bible I posted - "The high School Don Juan Bible" - because it had all the great info for high school students, by high school students... and the really necessary stuff from the main forums.

At that age just focus on self improvement. Girls have NO CLUE what they want, and its a WASTE OF TIME to chase after them. Just make simple approaches on any girl you want to talk to, if they seem interested get their #s. Go on group dates, make sure and HAVE FUN with the whole DJ experience - the perspective your develop while you finish puberty is a key influence on how you handle women for the rest of your life.
We all know you started djing when you were 6 Anthony, don't deny it...:cool:
 

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No, that is the perfect age. Girls will still notice man...believe me. By the time you're a sophmore girls will extremely notice. Believe me though, you have to be mature. My friends are not mature and they are not ready. But you I believe are.
If you're mentally ready then why not?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bumpin' and Grindin'

How do you do it?
 

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I started at 13 and it can put quite a bit of stress on you, but its definatly worth it. Its been about a year now and i can happily say that many of the most exciting times of my life have happened because of this website.
 

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Much like the Christian Bible, the stories are meant to convey general principles to live by, not be taken literally.

The DJ bible promotes confidence, independence, and suggests ways to manipulate human nature to your advantage. It is never too early to start. Just be sure you apply them correctly. Starting when you are not ready can lead you to come across as an idiot.

The DJ bootcamp, and principles of the Bible are good for improving your social skills in general. The principles learned there will help you in all of your endeavors, not just with women.

Rember that at your age, girls will be at their flakiest. They are also most suceptible to your advancements. They have not learned all of the classic guy moves and mistakes. Depending on how you look at it, these facts can eithr work to your advantage, or be your downfall. Nothing says you cant try, but dont be disheartended if they don't respond the way you want them to.
 
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