"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is there a way to learn to tell a girls age, I dont want to accdentally try to pick up a 13 yr old. Also will they think im younger than them because Im short, I dont look young and I have a deep voice though. Should I only go for chicks shorter than me? If so they could still think im younger than them, trust me you get used to hanging around with people taller than you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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adit

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How old are you?

Actually,height shouldnt really matter unless you're a dwarf.

There actually is a way to tell girls ages but you have to be really smart to figure it out.One thing I've noticed is that 13 y/o have pretty straight hair and rather thin faces and legs,and their hips are in no way rounded.

But I rely mostly on 'on the spot knowledge' about ages of girls.I listen to what they're talking about,I look at their facial expressions.Because you never know how wrong your theory could be.
 

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i think what adit is trying to say is that most american girls get really fat as they get older. girls shouldn't get fatter legs as they get older. maybe slightly rounder hips, but their legs should stay slender. same with the face.
 

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Heh I know the feeling, I put another post here talking about it. I accidentally picked up a girl I thought was about 16 or thereabouts, and turned out she was 14. So... I guess the only way to find out is to ask around, find out what year she's in and then pin-point her age. Say in year 10 most of them are 13, 14 at most 15. So you're not really aiming for a good group there. Year 11 however has 14, 15, at most 16 but still kind of young, finally year 12 has 15, 16, at most 17 so you're more likely to get lucky there. Year 13 usually has the best selection of 16, 17 and 18.
 

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ask them what grade theyre in, their age, etc.. its not hard and if shes 14, youre just being social and had a nice conversation.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No what I was saying was that 13 y/o have mostly bone in their legs,while 15+ have a bit of muscle which is noticeable (calf muscle is what I'm talking about)..

But it's best to judge on the spot,you never know when theory goes wrong.
 

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I've made the mistake of a tall girl 5'10" (I'm 6'2" so its okay) asking me my phone number.

I was 17 at the time. She looks 18, says she's 16. Okay, fine.
We had sex less than 24 hours later... turns out she was 14 and I was her first:(

Damn. MAKE SURE YOU KNOW!
 
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