"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is there a way to learn to tell a girls age, I dont want to accdentally try to pick up a 13 yr old. Also will they think im younger than them because Im short, I dont look young and I have a deep voice though. Should I only go for chicks shorter than me? If so they could still think im younger than them, trust me you get used to hanging around with people taller than you.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How old are you?

Actually,height shouldnt really matter unless you're a dwarf.

There actually is a way to tell girls ages but you have to be really smart to figure it out.One thing I've noticed is that 13 y/o have pretty straight hair and rather thin faces and legs,and their hips are in no way rounded.

But I rely mostly on 'on the spot knowledge' about ages of girls.I listen to what they're talking about,I look at their facial expressions.Because you never know how wrong your theory could be.
 

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i think what adit is trying to say is that most american girls get really fat as they get older. girls shouldn't get fatter legs as they get older. maybe slightly rounder hips, but their legs should stay slender. same with the face.
 

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Heh I know the feeling, I put another post here talking about it. I accidentally picked up a girl I thought was about 16 or thereabouts, and turned out she was 14. So... I guess the only way to find out is to ask around, find out what year she's in and then pin-point her age. Say in year 10 most of them are 13, 14 at most 15. So you're not really aiming for a good group there. Year 11 however has 14, 15, at most 16 but still kind of young, finally year 12 has 15, 16, at most 17 so you're more likely to get lucky there. Year 13 usually has the best selection of 16, 17 and 18.
 

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ask them what grade theyre in, their age, etc.. its not hard and if shes 14, youre just being social and had a nice conversation.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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No what I was saying was that 13 y/o have mostly bone in their legs,while 15+ have a bit of muscle which is noticeable (calf muscle is what I'm talking about)..

But it's best to judge on the spot,you never know when theory goes wrong.
 

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I've made the mistake of a tall girl 5'10" (I'm 6'2" so its okay) asking me my phone number.

I was 17 at the time. She looks 18, says she's 16. Okay, fine.
We had sex less than 24 hours later... turns out she was 14 and I was her first:(

Damn. MAKE SURE YOU KNOW!
 
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