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Master Don Juan
The culture is changing. This has an impact on when women are/were most prone to cheat.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I'm not surprised at all. Women who are their hottest (18-22, average age 20, the age every man prefers) are the most desirable on Earth. Therefore, they have the most options. Therefore, they are most likely to find options they like. Therefore, they are most likely to cheat or sleep around. They are also young, naïve, unjaded and inexperienced (especially with alcohol).I am surprised at the results so far. I'm going back about 8-10 years in my mind right now at every couple I know where either the woman cheated and/or the woman left the man and had another man right away. In 9 of 10 said couples, the woman was 35, 36,or 37 when it happened. The other couple, the woman was 27. Perhaps this is just because of my own age and the ages of the people I associate with? I have a lot of friends who I have known since my early 20s. Back in my 20s and very early 30s, I don't remember any couples splitting up around that age. And if the women were cheating, my male friend had no idea. But as they got into their 30s and the woman turned 35, 36,37, they all are all falling apart now and its all over the women cheating and/or leaving the man and then immediately getting another BF.
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You think 20 year old women are more faithful as long as they are not married? You must be doing something right.Cooled off. I think the 18 - 22 is only if you didn't put a ring on it yet like boyfriend and girlfriend or fiances or something.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
No, my post says the exact opposite of that. I believe that 18-22 is more faithful than 28-32 when talking about msrried couples specifically.You think 20 year old women are more faithful as long as they are not married? You must be doing something right.