"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Age of texting: is it rude if they refer to you as 'u'?

bigneil

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I have always been secretly offended when a girl texts me and refers to me as 'u'.

"How r u?"

Am I just being too old-fashioned?

I feel like saying "If you can't type the 'yo' then f u!"
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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cablecow15

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lol say that and see how far you get
 

Chickfight

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Don't be offended, cause they're not doing it intentionally to be rude or disrespectful. If it really bothers u, find someone who doesn't do it :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Mike32ct

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bigneil said:
I have always been secretly offended when a girl texts me and refers to me as 'u'.

"How r u?"

Am I just being too old-fashioned?

I feel like saying "If you can't type the 'yo' then f u!"
Texting is full of shortcuts, abbreviations, slang, and very loose grammar to minimize typing. It is absolutely not intended to be rude.
 

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This thread is ridiculous
 
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