"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Age of consent

DR Chillz

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This is really pissing me off. If I have sex with a girl a year or 2 younger then me and her parents get pissed I could be charged as sexual predator correct? Could someone hook me up with a link to show all the techicalites and ****. I know this is a diffrence between 15-16 year olds 17-18. But both are illegal.

I just cant believe congress could set up a law like ,this how unfair. A one year diffrence can put you in fedral prison, even if the younger person lies about there age shows you a fake ID.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bryce556

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wow its 14 is the age of sexual consent here in canada, then theres a thingy on how far the differnce between the person is, i think its like 3 years older or younger or somthing.
 

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I already know what the age of consent is but I think there is a a year or 4 year close in age rule. I just cant get over how dumb this law actually its only making crimminals out of innocent people when there is no close in age exemptions.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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bigjohnson

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Google for "Age of Consent" or "Age of Consent" and your area. or talk to a local lawyer. Alternatively you can just let them grow a few more years before harvesting. :rolleyes:
 

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bigjohnson said:
Google for "Age of Consent" or "Age of Consent" and your area. or talk to a local lawyer. Alternatively you can just let them grow a few more years before harvesting. :rolleyes:
Yes, lawyer is good idea for America. Like a thousand laws in America for taking dump. When I get back home in August I think I will be made fun of by friends because they do what they want in my country. Now I live scared that FBI will take my life from me.
 

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hmm... ask a lawyer about sex laws
lol thats funny

shows confidence asking a lawyer if it's legal for you to screw someone ;P
 

just so suave

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put a balaclava on and drag her into an alley?

JOKE!! age consents there to stop peadofiles/child molestorers (spell check?) but i agree with dr chillz, its silly that its illegal for a 16 year old to sleep with a 15 year old.

Its great though if you're both under 16 and give your consent, no one can get into trouble lol
 

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Funny that a 30 year old could be screwing a 10 year old and it would be illegal, but 50 year old could be screwing a 30 year old and it would be legal. Hell, if I where these pedophiles I'd just wait for them to reach legal age, then it wouldn't be illegal. But if you've got a thing where you just like little girls, that's disgusting.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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In New Jersey there's something called a Romeo and Juliette Act where if your within 4 years of each other only misdemeanor charges can be filed and most of the time all charges are dropped.
 

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I actually asked two lawyers. In New Jersey and New York, it's 18. In Florida, it's 16.

I've been told that basically, the judge won't really throw you in jail unless you go more than 2 years younger.


Of course, you still run the risk that there's a soccer mom or your girlfriend's parents have some shark for a lawyer and will destroy you in court or etc, etc. It's your life. Is the juice worth the squeeze?
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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ElStud said:
Hell, if I where these pedophiles I'd just wait for them to reach legal age, then it wouldn't be illegal.
ew man, you go do that :p
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you should like make a consent form and have your girl sign it before fvcking her.. with that agreement, lawyers will have a much harder time getting you.

"did you sign this willingly?"
girl (under oath): "yes"

lol that would be a crazy idea
 

DR Chillz

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Bling said:
I actually asked two lawyers. In New Jersey and New York, it's 18. In Florida, it's 16.

I've been told that basically, the judge won't really throw you in jail unless you go more than 2 years younger.


Of course, you still run the risk that there's a soccer mom or your girlfriend's parents have some shark for a lawyer and will destroy you in court or etc, etc. It's your life. Is the juice worth the squeeze?
Hm gives me something to think about

Thanks for all the replys out there. I did alot of google searching before I started this thread. Anyway I had this feminst lady come in to my health class and tried to scare every one there. I even heard of a case where a girl showed a fake idea and the male still got thrown in jail. Thats like getting depansed then being charged for indeasent exposure.
 

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I think i's a bunch of crap but it's the law, and since they're only good for one thing until they get into their mid 20s anyway it works out oK in the end.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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navyseal2101

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I HATE my states laws. I see why they are there but they need revision. I'm 16 and can only slep with 16 and 17. Problem is the girl im interested in is 19. We're dealing though.
 
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It is called feminism. In my country I have never heard of anyone getting in trouble for anything like this. I know old men who brag of doing such things. They think it is their duty to teach girls things.
 

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My time is running out :( i wish i didnt waste my earlier years.
 

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going for an illegal girl would be dirty :p

"let's have some illegal sex"
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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