"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Age Limit for clubs?

Mike24ct

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Hey Guys.

I'm a 28 y/o (soon to be 29) RAFC. Am I too old to go to dance clubs, bars, etc?

Also, I do go out solo most of the time. Women almost always ask, "Are you hear ALONE?" What is a good comeback line so I don't look like a loser?

Assuming I get my game going, what age range of women could I reasonably expect to get?


Thanks for your input.

Mike
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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CEF

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**** no. I still go out often.

If they ask why you are alone you just say something like 'My friends were all busy tonight but there was no way that was going to get in the way of having a good time!'.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Dude, if you have to ask you've got something else to worry about. If you feel that by default a person's age is a limit on where you can go or what you can do, you have the wrong attitude.

If you want to go clubbing, GO CLUBBING! Who's going to stop you? The only person that can is you and using a lame excuse like age is just a cop out. If you can hold your own in a club, who the fvck cares how old you are.

Yes, I'm on my got d@mn soap box because I am 37 and I'm an avid clubber. I will flirt with and sarge any woman in a skirt as long as she is legal. Why, because I can, no matter my age. :cool:

Someone on the board has a kick @ss tag line which you should always keep in mind when you go clubbing, no matter your age.

"Walk in like you don't care who owns the place!"
 

Derek Flint

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HB: "Are you here alone?"
Me: "Why, you looking to upgrade?"

BTW, I'm in my early 40's and still go to bars/pubs/clubs where the age group is 21-35 and still pull younger women.

Probably more so now than when I was in my 20's
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TooColdUlrick

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yeah, if you have to ask these questions, you're not yet fully Reformed. i'm 37 and go out, alone many times cuz most of my buds are married (uh, soon to be divorced).

HB: are you here alone?
TooCold: yes (proceed with rapport building)

simple as that. lying or making up some lame line makes you appear that you are ashamed of it. a woman will see right through that. also, 'are you here alone' is a test. do you have the b@lls to give her a straight answer? that's my take on it.
 

Jay Gatsby

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How about this:

Woman: Are you here alone?

Man: Yes I am, and I don't bite...well, maybe a just a little. <accompanied by an innocent grin and eye contact>
 

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I have been going out alone a bunch lately myself. I see more and more people that go out alone as well.
If you really feel uncomfortable about it say you are new in town but also remember this.
Most women will never go out by themselves. I have known quite a few girls that were more attracted to me BECAUSE I had the guts to go out by myself.
 
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