"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Age is just a number NOT POF thread So Suave poster?

Naughty Ninja

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I could swear this dude who posted in this POF "Age is just a number-NOT" thread is a So Suave user. Funny thing is most choose to ignore replying to him because they either can't refute him and know he's correct.

Link to his post history. Glad some people get it.

Some of his replies to the topic below:

Older women are going to rail about this issue no matter what, because
it's a resource competition. But not all older men want to date younger,
so there will always be someone available for the older women.
Young women are TAUGHT that older guys are "creepy." The words
"creepy" and "creeper" are thrown around like bullets, with great glee when they land
on some hapless dude. Just today I had a conversation with a buddy of mine on this very topic.
A very stupid and vapid young woman he works with called him a "creeper" because he
was chatting up a woman who was( NOW GET THIS!!!!!) FIVE YEARS YOUNGER!!!!!
My God! better run for the hills! A creeper who chats up women who are five years younger!
What is the world coming to? Look. This is just stoooooooooooooooooooooooooopid. There is no other way to put it.
Political correctness is a way to totally rid the world of testosterone. Like I said before, it's all about making men THINK LIKE WOMEN. But it's not going to work. I don't care what Oprah says,
you're not going to be able to totally emasculate every man in America. You might get MOST of them, but not all.


No....the very IDEA that any man over 40 even engages in sex is enough to make the PC loons vomit.
Older men are supposed to become asexual, and if they show any tendency toward virility they are labeled creepy.
It's all about control.

Lady, you're the perfect example of what I've been talking about.
You love to dish it out against older men, but if someone were to let you have it,
you'd be crying and complaining.
You made my point. Women have gotten MEAN.
There was no reason for your post. It was pure unadulterated hate. The terms you used were hateful,
and what makes it even worse is that you are AWARE of the fact that you were being hateful.
I predict a long road ahead for you my dear, filled with lonely nights.......

Like I said before, any evidence of testosterone is "creepy".
You just have to ignore it.

I think that you don't realize what has happened in this society. Now,
since feminism is running the show, all of us are supposed to think like women.
So....dating outside same age, even a few years, and some dummy will label it "creepy."
In fact, nearly everything an older man does or says is "creepy." There is no war on women,
but there certainly is an ongoing war on men.

Once again, the discussion of dating younger has to focus on 12 year olds and pedophiles and stupidity.
And the predictable potshots from those who stand to lose in the resource competition if older men date younger women......older women lose out and younger men lose out. So, of course they have to bray and snivel that it's immoral and immature. But the fact is that it's simple human bias to dislike competition and make up excuses for why you don't like it.

I don't get the fuss over this. I'll never understand it.
I don't believe there used to be such a big deal made over age difference. I believe that feminism
is trying to make EVERYONE think like women, including men. Any evidence of testosterone
and surely there will be complaints on the way.
I've had younger women in my face and all over me initially, until they find out my age and someone tells them
no go. In other words, if it were up to the young women there would be no issue, but their friends usually nix it.

I'd like to have a family and children. I've never had that.

And to be honest, I'm not attracted to women my age anyway.

Older women have a FIT over older guys dating younger. While at the same time it's perfectly okay for older women to date younger men.

It would never occur to me to comment on any sort of couple, be it mixed race, older/younger, whatever. But I tend to mind my own business.

Wealthy men, movie stars, sports figures, etc., almost always date younger women. But if a regular guy does it,
it's supposed to be a big scandal. I just have to scratch my head over this.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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FVck POF, its the most scandalous waste of time..............just walk up to young chicks and street hit them, as a wise man once said "throw enough mud at the wall and some will stick" APPROACH, APPROACH, APPROACH, APPROACH, APPROACH, APPROACH, APPROACH, APPROACH, APPROACH, Gotcha!!! ;)
 

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TonyBaloney said:
FVck POF, its the most scandalous waste of time..............just walk up to young chicks and street hit them, as a wise man once said "throw enough mud at the wall and some will stick" APPROACH, APPROACH, APPROACH, APPROACH, APPROACH, APPROACH, APPROACH, APPROACH, APPROACH, Gotcha!!! ;)

Mind blowing! lol. I meant this thread to be about the dudes replies. Sounded like a So Suave poster is on POF slapping them around on their forums.

Who needs to approach when you work part time at a job where loads of hot chicks work and hot customers approach you? ;) Approaching is easy. So long as you don't come off as some "Alpha" DJ nutjob but a normal person. True story.
 

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Mike32ct said:
Yep, it's some BS double standard.

Older woman dating or trying to date younger guys = cougar

Older man dating or trying to date younger women = creepy old man, creeper, etc.
On POF, I've put myself at age 44 to go for older women. But a lot of those that I meet are one date wonders.

It's really becoming a woman's world. But women are glass cannons! They can dish it out but they can't take it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Older man dating or trying to date younger women = creepy old man, creeper, etc.
This is what is putting me off dating an 18 year old I know who is interested in me and has been for a while. I'm 23 and don't want the stigma attached with dating a younger woman. My problem is the age range I seem to attract the most is anywhere from 16-20. Girls around my own age 22, 23, 24 aren't interested so much and I don't think I've attracted too many woman much older than me.
 
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