"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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EmotionalGeek

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Age (33) is my biggest insecurity. I've read on the forum that some people takes age as an advantage. I would like to start this thread to get some outlook on this topic. I do it to know the "truth" to adjust accordingly.

Age factor spoiled some of my approaches and prevented probably 50% of shots I didn't take for example:

1. GIrl sent me very obvious IOIs. I approached, started to dance with her, She gave me "I am with friends **** test". I negged her and passed the test. After a while she was drilling for my age. I fenced off with yokes few times, She was persistent and I finally answered with some stupid "please validate me" body language -- I could feel repulsion I generated myself. She went to her friends immediately.

2. Age is alway in back of my head when I try to do day game approach. I alway try to asses girls age. Often I won't do it in time and do not approach because she passes by. Quite often I am not able to say whether she is in high-school or student and I do not approach.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tell you what your age is irrelevant to most woman unless you are trying to date a teenybopper. Woman your age or a few years younger could care less until you make it obvious that it bothers you. Deal with your own insecurities and your age will not matter. I am 68 (no matter what my profile mistakenly says).. and if a woman I am interested in has issues with that, it is their problem not mine. If you have your sh*t together and can communicate in more that DJ talk your age should not even be a consideration....unless you are a true creeper hitting on teens. Then you have a whole different set of issues to be explored. Be appropriate for the age you are and you will do just fine. Trust me on this one. Good luck.
 
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