"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Kalel21

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Hi all,
I am from the UK and I was introduced to a 16 yr old girl who will be 17 in two months. She lives 2 miles away. I am 21 going on 22. I normally don't go out with women this young but I really like this chick. She is mature for her age. Is it wrong for me to date her and should I go with someone my age? I mean in England 16 is completely legal since its the age of consent.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sexy_kuta

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17 and 22 isnt THat bad..

try it.. if she seems mature enough and u like her then go for it..

but if shes immature and **** then fuk it

like i said AGE is just a number isnt it? i know thats what i say to them older girls :p

but seriously i believe age is just a number, a guildline.. i can easily pass for 18ish 19 when im 16.. i looked the same when i was 15..
i actually turned 16 in march...
yet i still act older.

its all about preferences.. if you like her and shes mature enough for you then go for it..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Kalel21

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Thanks guys. I was really concerned
 

frivolousz21

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physicaly no.
but remember your a growm man messing with a teenager
 

PRMoon

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Just curious as to where you're going to go with this girl? She can't go to pubs or bars (unless shse has a fake ID) here in the states. I suppose you could just do meals, movies, and shopping. I guess there's more of a liberation of the night life here because of our drinking age that you dont' get in the UK becaue your drinking age is often lower.

FYI: 16 is the age of concent in most states across the US. Just don't let their shot gun weilding father find out:nervous:
 
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