"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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iRose

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Alright , Im a sophomore the girls a senior.
She always looks at me , and all I can do is stare back.
We used to talk at games and when it was cold Id tell her open
her legs and shed let me lay in between.
I just want to at least start off by getting her number. It just seems intimidating.
So any advice for this?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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AlexLefty

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iRose said:
Alright , Im a sophomore the girls a senior.
Doesn't matter. If you display attractive characteristics, she can not help but be attracted to you, regardless of grade.

iRose said:
We used to talk at games and when it was cold Id tell her open
her legs and shed let me lay in between.
I just want to at least start off by getting her number. It just seems intimidating.
So any advice for this?
Um, she willingly lays on you...
She wants you.
Make a move.
 

iRose

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I'll make a journal soon, but what should the first step be?
 

Jack Wealthy

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... Oh umm... I don't know man. How's being a keyboard jockey and not taking iniative for your own sex life working? Maybe just uh, keep at that. Ignore her.

If that doesn't work TRY TALKING TO HER. About the weather. Or whether or not she spits or swallows. Who gives, just talk.

Figure easy crap like this out for yourself man.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mindgamez

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Man, I was stopped today because I was too worried about the fact I was 16 and her 18. She was beautiful and she glanced at me at times. I ****ing missed my chance...
 
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