"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ok guys here's the deal. There's this girl that I like who gets on my bus every morning to college. I'm 18 and she'd be 15/16, as she's in her last year of high school from what I can tell. All I was wondering was if girls of that age would be skeptical about dating a guy my age? I know girls seem to generally like older guys, but is that true when they're at this age too?

Skipping forward a few frames: if it turns out she has a boyfriend already is it best to just bow out? I'm extremely picky with girls and a girl of her calibre doesn't come around too often at all for me, so even if she has a boyfriend I wouldn't really wanna give up. I might be looking a bit too deep into things here but I see her sending a text message or two every morning on the bus, and I'm thinking "Who the heck else would she be texting this early if not her boyfriend?". Am I being an idiot?

Cheers.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No, you arent being an "idiot", youre just worrying too much over one girl. Normal, but save yourself some stress and just let her go.
 
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If she is interested in you, and you're interested in her... Why not? Boyfriend? Dont use that an excuse, if you want something, go and get it. Period.
 
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If she's in her last year of high school, she's 17/18.
 
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Im 18 I am currently tuning and hooked up with a 16 year old. I think its fair game.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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heh mate, as far as I can remember girls at an age of 16 almost always have boyfriends with an age of 17-18 :) go for it I say :p
 
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