"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Age difference problem 3 babes now who told me I am to young

mka

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Hey Guys,

I have this problem...
This is my situation...
I like these girls

1 is 25
1 is 29
1 is 35 but still really beautifull...

I am 22....

These 3 girls all told me that I am too young for them..
or that they are too old for me...
It is almost scary....
that every single woman of them has told me that I am too young..

What do I do in this situation?
What will be the response I would have to give to her..
to get this off her mind... To just drop it..
The problem is.. it is not only a ****test.. they also mean it...

Greatings Master knight adventurer
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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earthshyne

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You're missing the whole point of DJ-ism.

It isn't up to them to decide whether you're too young or not. It's up to you to determine if they're your type.

Take 5 pennies. Throw them in the air. Chances are, 3 will come up heads (or tails) and two will come up the other side. Does it have a meaning? No, not really.

"What you focus on determines what you miss." These aren't the only three wimmen on the planet, and their issues about age are exactly that: their issues. Don't let their shortcomings damage your character.
 

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Originally posted by mka
Hey Guys,

I have this problem...
This is my situation...
I like these girls

1 is 25
1 is 29
1 is 35 but still really beautifull...

I am 22....

These 3 girls all told me that I am too young for them..
or that they are too old for me...
It is almost scary....
that every single woman of them has told me that I am too young..
Greatings Master knight adventurer
Your physical age has nothing to do with it, the problem is the way you act. Behaviour that is completely acceptable for a 22 year old is dubbed as immature behaviour for a 32 year old.

The older you get the more control one is expected to have, that is why you should never try to rekindle the actions that may have worked to get you girls at 16 when you are 25. What you did was acceptable then, but no longer acceptable now.

Learn to control your spirit more, and not acting as loose and wild as you may feel, and older women will have no problem with your age.
 

Grey Fox

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Hang out with some guys around the ages of those women you are interested in and see how they come off maturity wise. Get a feel for how they think and act and tailor that to your own style so next time you run into an older woman you will understand the kind of guys she is used to dealing with in her peer group. Also next time one of the tosses age in your face feel free to turn it around on them. In fact agree with them that they are to old for you. Don't let the issue be about your youth but their age, after all in the heart of every woman somewhere is insecure emotionally confused girl.

-Grey Fox
 

Yuriy777

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Hang out with some guys around the ages of those women you are interested in and see how they come off maturity wise. Get a feel for how they think and act and tailor that to your own style so next time you run into an older woman you will understand the kind of guys she is used to dealing with in her peer group.
that's good advise. it's all about maturity when it comes to an age difference. I've always acted mature for my age (and i look older so i guess that helps too), and i have picked up 2 girls older than me one being 22, and one being 20 (i am 18). i'v also come close but didn't close with a girl that was in her late 20s (29 i think).

just act arround their age and you should be fine. or if they next you, than move on to some other girls.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AIR-PILOT

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It's all about maturity...
Girls don't care about your age, if you can supply the goods mentally YOU SHOULD NOT HAVE A PROBLEM.
good luck.
 
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