"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Age difference; is it a big deal?

Age Difference: big deal or no?

  • Big Deal

    Votes: 2 25.0%
  • Not a Big deal

    Votes: 6 75.0%

  • Total voters
    8

dannyegg4575

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I find it funny how a girl find it such a big deal once they found out how old you are. To be honest with you, I find age difference not that big a deal. When two people click, they click for various reasons. It is that chemistry that can help make the relationship fun.

What makes age difference such a big deal? Care to comment?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ezily

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how big of a difference are you talking about? IMO if a woman is more than 2 years older (depending on how hot she is) then I just don't like that. And at my age anything more than 4 years younger just won't work. I think it just depends on how old you are and how mature the girl is.
 

ricorico

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If a guy keeps in shape,dresses well,has little baggage(ex-wife,kids,bills) age will rarely be a problem when picking up women.

Unfortunately, too many guys are AFC and marry young. Then work their ass off to pay bills. Can't save money cause kids cost so damned much. Sit around on their days off drinking beer eating Nachos gaining weight and losing hair. Then the divorce comes and they look like ****. Then age difference is a problem.
 
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