"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Age, careers, social status, and sex with beautiful women

Alphathree

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This has been nagging me for a while.

Now many of us here understand "the game" as in the things we can say and do around women that cause them to feel attracted to us. Great. This is _NOT_ what this post is about.

It is about this: Average joe spends most of his life trying to increase his social and financial status. He gets education, recognition, better jobs, more money, more friends, more possessions. He becomes more skilled at the things he does. He develops hobbies.

Now in some cases, these pursuits will result in average joe becoming naturally attractive to women. If your "hobby" happens to be becoming a rock star (Mick Jagger can score any girl he wants), you're in.

But in some sense, equal social status doesn't always mean equal buying power on the sexual market.

Was it Henry Kissenger that said "power is the greatest aphrodisiac"? Obviously he saw the connection between power (high social status) and attraction.

And we often talk about CEOs and politicians as individuals who posses power and social status, yet if you look at your average CEO or politician, you will usually find an average-looking wife (perhaps if only because she is as old as he is.)

Is it that these individuals have 'settled' with their wife and family and despite still feeling attraction for young, hot women, the fire has died down? Are they cheating on the side? Does a man's biology permit him to think of something other than sex twelve thousand times a day as he ages? (Being 22, I can only speculate.)

Bill Clinton got some action on the side with a young, relatively hot intern, so power was clearly an aphrodisiac for him. Does the same happen for George W. Bush?

Most women I know will deny feeling any attraction toward these older, high status males, yet Bill Clinton, Donald Trump, and who knows how many other older HSMs are able to score young, hot girls.

Your thoughts?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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tmpgstx

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It happens more often than you think. Alot of it is 'hush-hush'. Many politicians pay for apartments and provide for women that have sex with them in different cities.

It's not that these women are attracted to them at all physically, it's about being her 'sugar-daddy'. Sex is her way of paying him for his money.

If there is a hot younger broke stud in the area though, she won't hesitate to take a short detour and have sex with him. The older guy knows this is going to happen, so it remains a sex only thing.
 

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Originally posted by tmpgstx
It happens more often than you think. Alot of it is 'hush-hush'. Many politicians pay for apartments and provide for women that have sex with them in different cities.

It's not that these women are attracted to them at all physically, it's about being her 'sugar-daddy'. Sex is her way of paying him for his money.

If there is a hot younger broke stud in the area though, she won't hesitate to take a short detour and have sex with him. The older guy knows this is going to happen, so it remains a sex only thing.
Okay, but how do you justify the times when this happens where there is not an exchange of resources?
 

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Usually there is though in cases i've noticed. The older guy always has money.

The only other times is when the girl breaks a guy up from his marriage just to do it, for a power trip and then dump him, regardless of resources. Angelina Jolie does this all the time.

Every guy she's been with has been married older or younger and then dumped him. It's the power trip that she needs for that ever so fragile ego of hers.

Many women do this to guys that are married with kids. It's a cruel thing because the woman could care less about him but anyone that pays attention to her and she can get a power trip from it - she'll do it.

This is what an AW does but on a smaller scale with guys that ARE attractive to her, but she won't do anything with. When she gets older - this is often the type that does the marriage breaking type of shyte for power trips.
 

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Originally posted by tmpgstx
Usually there is though in cases i've noticed. The older guy always has money.

The only other times is when the girl breaks a guy up from his marriage just to do it, for a power trip and then dump him, regardless of resources. Angelina Jolie does this all the time.

Every guy she's been with has been married older or younger and then dumped him. It's the power trip that she needs for that ever so fragile ego of hers.

Many women do this to guys that are married with kids. It's a cruel thing because the woman could care less about him but anyone that pays attention to her and she can get a power trip from it - she'll do it.

This is what an AW does but on a smaller scale with guys that ARE attractive to her, but she won't do anything with. When she gets older - this is often the type that does the marriage breaking type of shyte for power trips.
I agree with that sentiment. I can't stand AWs even at my age.

Although in fairness, if a man falls victim to an AW and that breaks up his marriage, that's kinda "his" fault. It doesn't make her actions right either, but you can't make the man look like a helpless fool (although he probably was, come to think of it.)

I guess I'm just a 22-year-old who is fairly happy with his life right now but wondering how to maintain said happiness into the far future in terms of young women being attracted to me for me (or at least for my status and not my money)
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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