"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Age and Workouts

NeedToImprove

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i know everybody is different and metabolism as well.my question is there an age where you stop seeing gains in muscle build? i notice that some guys stop working out thinking they will not have any more gains or won't have a fit body, from late 30's and up.

Can age be considered an obstacle for bulding a fit body?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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GameTime76

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You are not too old to start weight resistant training. As we get older the muscle structure tends to atrophy at a faster and faster rate. The ideal remedy for this is bodybuilding.

Of course a man in his 40's wont get the same type of shape as he could a few years earlier. There is wear and tear on the muscles, a gradual hormonal change and shortening of the muscles. But, with recent research its proved that muscle doesnt have to atrophy with age. In fact, muscle mass can be increased with proper training even in those of advanced age.
 

Atom Smasher

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I'm 54 and although I recently had 2 crushed vertebrae which limits my ability to lift, I can easily look exactly like I did in my 20s (when I used to train regularly) within 4 weeks, and pretty close to that within 2.

Age doesn't have to be a limitation at all. I might be a bit of an exception because I look very young, but I've seen guys in their 50s get into great shape after living with decades of flab.
 
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