"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Again a help needed thread

M

manish

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 3, 2009
Messages
208
Reaction score
1
Location
Singapore
hey guys...

i know you guys hate this kind of threads..but this is the only site where i get kind of really good advice.so writing it here

i,m generally doing good..i have stared working out 3 months back and things are improving...

the only thing is i have a gf who is currently not in my city..so i tend to log on to some dating sites or yahoo messenger and try to have sex chats with random girls using fake personality..which kind of bugs me after wards...

i just want to get rid of this sex chat habit..any help or method on this..on how to do this?

or should i continue doing it...

guide me brothers...

manish
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

C

cmr662

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 12, 2004
Messages
68
Reaction score
1
Easy answer - go out to bars or clubs and meet some women who you can actually bang. Simple as that.
 
C

COD

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 19, 2006
Messages
1,197
Reaction score
30
OLINE ADDICTION is solidified the minute it turns sexual.........is virtual cheating a bad thing.......thats another debate for another time.

Lets figure out a solution..........Your GF is out of your town,ADD the fact U go online trolling for virtual sex, subtract the fact you use a fake name, ummmmmm carry the one and you get...........JAG (just another guy).

Lots of people use their computer for gratification, its only wrong when U get caught. Until your living with said girl rock on. Think of it like picking your nose........ok I guess if done in private but not so good if you do it in public.

POTENTIAL RISKS-if your fantasy girl is not really a girl, or they want to take It OFFLINE..........some would consider this a bonus. The question you should ask is why not have virtual or phone sex with your GF?
 
K

kingsam

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 12, 2010
Messages
989
Reaction score
13
Location
England, baby!
manish said:
dating sites or yahoo messenger
Click to expand...
DELETE yahoo messenger and all the other ones

in your internet browser settings Block the dating websites...even tho you could easily visit them again - the process of blocking them should be enough to start kicking the habit

you also need to find some other hobbies/activities to replace them... (or work more hours = more ££)
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top