Guys I'm in one of those phases. I feel like using this stuff makes your life focused on girls, and thinking otherwise is self deception. Granted I use the stuff sometimes and still get flakes. If I'm only interested in sex I can't fake the whole deal. If I'm interested in her personality I go completely obsessive and utterly AFC.
This post is entitled Aftermath partly because during more sorta RAFC/DJ days I tried dating many women, and most of whom I still know. Ususally I went for it until I got a no and then didn't give a ****, but over time I felt like I hurt some feelings. After me and some girl didn't work out - the girl would act weird around me like gangbusters. Now I am acting weird. And I have to see these people on a regular basis. I want to date other girls in these social circles because they are my only pull at the moment.
I tried random approaches but I just come off as phony and desperate. The fact is I want to make right with the previous girls and have a good social life and meet one that way.
But I feel like they have known me too long, and anything I do will be percieved as a - "desperate try all" to quote the article 'ten commandments'.
I donno guys tell me to read the bible or something I guess, but when I read that I feel like it's written by a couple of highschool posers.
This post is entitled Aftermath partly because during more sorta RAFC/DJ days I tried dating many women, and most of whom I still know. Ususally I went for it until I got a no and then didn't give a ****, but over time I felt like I hurt some feelings. After me and some girl didn't work out - the girl would act weird around me like gangbusters. Now I am acting weird. And I have to see these people on a regular basis. I want to date other girls in these social circles because they are my only pull at the moment.
I tried random approaches but I just come off as phony and desperate. The fact is I want to make right with the previous girls and have a good social life and meet one that way.
But I feel like they have known me too long, and anything I do will be percieved as a - "desperate try all" to quote the article 'ten commandments'.
I donno guys tell me to read the bible or something I guess, but when I read that I feel like it's written by a couple of highschool posers.