"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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After you sleep together, play it the same as before?

jackhamma

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You play a really smooth, cool, laid back approach. Your confident, in control, speak your mind, enjoy your self when your with her, tease her, and above all keep being a busy man. So she digs that.

You go out a few times, you finally sleep together. Now I can tell she is slowly reaching out more through text. Trying to make slow convo. I am keeping it exactly how I was before we slept together. Of course making small convo back, inviting her out when I want to go out etc.

Is that the correct approach? Keep playing it the EXACT same way before we slept together? That will make her want to reach out more, and chase me right?

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Poon King

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The correct approach is to not give a sh!t and do/act however you want. Unless you want all your actions to be ruled by one female's opinion of you.

If you f*ck her then you succeeded. Relax and have a beer. Do whatever you feel like doing. Act however you feel like acting.

If you are thinking LTR... do you really expect to spend your entire time over-thinking your every move and being an actor?
 

hockeyfreak79

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Oh sh*t you f*cked the co-worker latina. Dude she's hot & 22 probably has a sh*t load of orbiters like mine did. Hey but good for mane, latinas have & know game very well. Well atleast the 1 I knew did. You care way to much about this broad & the outcome. Just relax & enjoy the young poon. Sounds like your are over thinking this, it was just sex man relax.

Don't start acting like her BF! Lay off that sh*t man, jesus this isn't that complex.
 

Stugots26

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You hang out, have fun, and hook up. Every other guy she's ever been with probably starts to get goo-goo-ga-ga and lovey-dovey and totally come unglued after they've slept with her, so she's probably worried that you're going to change too. Keep on doing what worked. She was attracted to you when you were acting like a man, and you need to show her that she hasn't had an effect on you. You need to act as if this is what always happens to you. Women always end up banging you because they're helplessly attracted to you, so of course, naturally, she did too. You have to act like you always knew she'd end up in your bed. Keep her following your lead, don't lose your cool.
 
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