After three month visit, my New view on India, and Arrange marriages for NRI..

[Canadien]

Ok, so having been back from India, after spending 3 months, I've come away with quiet a few new startling observation.

- having family back in India is big advantage, as you get instant social proof, even if you go back there after 12 years like me..LOL... and easy Network that you can start from, I actually had so big of a family network back there that I couldn't even go to meet most of them..

- Weddings and marriages are big back there, thats where potential groom and birdes are picked out, and being from Canada you get VIP treatment, as everybody is looking to talk to you, and potentially get their daughters introduced...

- In India guys have to be very careful, as everybody is watching, so what you get is guys hanging out with guys, and all potential love stories are going on in secrecy, with girl wanting birth charts to match before thinking about marriage, ouch...

- There are collection of Girls reserved only for NRI crowd, this girls are taught western lifestyle, they are everywhere you look, their only goal is to land NRI, The job, personality and other stuff is neglected, only entry into foreign country is needed for them..

- I am 26 in a week and they call old grumpies anyone whose over 30 and unmarried, so I gotta make this decision soon, maybe in two years, WOW, this is gone be tough one...

- As mentioned they still match birth charts, and astrology before going forth with marriage proposal, my cousin just had to marry the second best because birth charts didn't match with his first choice...

- They still get married within caste system, so I have almost all girls available under family the name gandhi or modi, everything else is off league, but with NRI comes the power to change that too..

- India is progressive, their fashion style, is like 10 years ahead of North America, that surprised the hell out of me, I will never see the India in similar light again, they got flashy sexy colors, even for men...LOL...

- Everything is cheap in India, and you could really make a big splash back there, if you want to make something big then think about India, everything is possible back there,. and cheap too, not to mention people will follow you and cheer, where ever you go..

- Fusion Dance is big too, with wedding happening almost every week, young and the bachelor crowd learn the moves of recent music, and dances, its like watching professional dancers in regular people, and with NRI title, I had special privillage to join in, and learn some moves too, now I got another dance style I gotta master, I'm so excited...

- India is very big and there is so much undiscovered, then again I've seen more of India in just two months, compared to people who live there..

Anyways, I could say even more, but for now I'd just like to say thanks India, for showing another possibility, maybe I might go back there for marriage, what do you guys say?

 

[strey]

Indian women are so beautiful, i work with several here in America and they seem to age very well compared to other cultures, very nice people too. too bad i will never to get to experience the female from this race.

 

[schttrj]

nice to see that you appreciate indian women, as you can see, im also indian, dudes. to the op author, what do you think of sarging possibilities in india? i find it real hard to approach, man.... any ideas how to do that?

 

[shinko]

Indian women are gorgeous, i've dated a few over the years. I'd be interested to hear your thoughts as an indian man on someone non asian dating asian girls. personally i've had experienced a fair amount of race problems and jealously. but it be interesting to hear your perspective on it.

 

[Mavrick]

I was married to a woman that was half Indian and half Caucasian. I'll keep my mouth shut on what I think about them because maybe I just married a bad apple. Anyway, her dad wasn't a winner, and he was Caucasian.