After the NC challenge has finished...

[mikey2012]

So you gone with 60 days with NC but you still feel hung up on her. It hurts less but she is still on your mind. Sure, you are in a better state when you first broke up but there are still lingering feelings. You cant still forget her.

Assuming you broke up under exentuating circumstances, ie. she wasnt a biatch, cheat on you (e.g Jariel's case) then this what you could do.

Send her simple text asking how she is? Ie. How are you?

If she responds favorable, this means she is also not entirely over you.
I prefer text over email since its more spontaneous and you can gauge from her response time if she is eager to talk.
Keep the first text short and simple and if you catch her replying back, DONT talk about what happened in the past unless its good memories. Stress how you have been without her. Then after take it slow, You need to start from the ground up. Do not mention anything about getting back together. Good Luck.

 

[El Payaso]

Wow. Are you f**king serious? You clearly don't understand the concept of NC. Hopefully, the mods delete this nonsense.

 

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Send her simple text asking how she is? Ie. How are you?

If she responds favorable, this means she is also not entirely over you.
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if she responds favorably after 60 days NC she's probably afraid you're going to murder her or something and is just trying to stay on your good side. don't read too much into it.

 

[May_Day]

After 60 days, you should be banging other girls not even thinking about her. This is dumb, it defeats the whole purpose of NC. She should be texting YOU to see how YOU are doing because she still isn't over you yet . An ex is an ex, no point in trying to reinitiate contact. If she was so great, then there would be no reason to break up.

Assuming you broke up under exentuating circumstances, ie. she wasnt a biatch, cheat on you (e.g Jariel's case) then this what you could do.

No reason to be crawling back to an ex. What's done is done, so let it be.

 

[goodganji44]

This is the type of advice up and coming DJ's SHOULD NOT listen to. I hope the mods do the right thing and have this garbage deleted.

No Contact means NO CONTACT. Use it to get on with your life. If you wan't the girl back bad enough, wait until she contacts you and let her earn your love and attention back. That simple.