"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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After the man or the house

ThatGuyTR

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Met this girl in freshman year of college. We would talk late on the phone for hours at a time, almost nightly. Went out a few times, but nothing major spurred out of it. I took a hiatus from college and the contact dissipated with it. Upon my return to school, contact was reestablished but didn’t flourish since she was in a LTR (which resulted in a child) and I eventually ended up in one sometime thereafter. When we did see each other on campus, we would have a short conversations and I helped her with some of her classes. In one of the passing conversations, she told me that she wanted to bang back when but that didn’t happen (I was AFC back then and just didn’t pick up the hint). For me assisting with her classes, she agreed to take me out to dinner.

Fast forward to recent… she’s (been) out of her LTR, I’m out of my LTR, we live about 2 hrs apart, and I’ve accomplished the American Dream (homeowner). She sends a text out the blue saying hey and we have had multiple conversations per week since. The dinner "outing" has been set later this month when I'll be closer to her.

Is She trying to get what she has wanted for a while (me) or she just trying to improve her status (move in house)?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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blind_one

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Like Ruler said, you are over thinking. Just go with it and see where it goes.
 
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