"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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After much thought, I'm still lost- any tips?

dompo

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Hello there people- aspiring DJ here. I myself have read the whole bible, and yet I have a difficult situation on my hand. The girl I'm currently "working" on is a tough cookie to crack.

She's one year younger than me, and responds well to my kino (holding hands, arm around shoulder etc) and I even stole her first kiss. Sound successful? That's where the problem comes in.

You see, she's not sure whether she's attracted to me. Now all my instincts point out to a sound "YES", and yet she now just wants to 'go back to being friends'. Ofcourse, we could factor in the possibility that she is just toying with me, that since I'm the first guy to openly pursue her (mistake, I have to admit.) or we can just blame it on those damn hormones.

My question is, what should I do? Move on, or should I take the persistent approach? Or is there a better way of solving this problem? So far all I have come up with is the "You just haven't realised" approach....

Dom.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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frisco

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just start treating her as a friend tell her u think its a great idea and make sure to talk to girls infront of her to make her jealous eventually shell realize she made a mistake
 

DJ4Real

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Never ever ever!! take a persistent approach. Rather, you have to show her you have a life and your attention isn't centered on her. You need to talk to more girls and make her realize that she's missing out.

Good Luck:cool:
 
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