"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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After much thought, I'm still lost- any tips?

dompo

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Hello there people- aspiring DJ here. I myself have read the whole bible, and yet I have a difficult situation on my hand. The girl I'm currently "working" on is a tough cookie to crack.

She's one year younger than me, and responds well to my kino (holding hands, arm around shoulder etc) and I even stole her first kiss. Sound successful? That's where the problem comes in.

You see, she's not sure whether she's attracted to me. Now all my instincts point out to a sound "YES", and yet she now just wants to 'go back to being friends'. Ofcourse, we could factor in the possibility that she is just toying with me, that since I'm the first guy to openly pursue her (mistake, I have to admit.) or we can just blame it on those damn hormones.

My question is, what should I do? Move on, or should I take the persistent approach? Or is there a better way of solving this problem? So far all I have come up with is the "You just haven't realised" approach....

Dom.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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frisco

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just start treating her as a friend tell her u think its a great idea and make sure to talk to girls infront of her to make her jealous eventually shell realize she made a mistake
 

DJ4Real

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Never ever ever!! take a persistent approach. Rather, you have to show her you have a life and your attention isn't centered on her. You need to talk to more girls and make her realize that she's missing out.

Good Luck:cool:
 
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