After just one month I had to dump her..

[jhonny9546]

Yes spot on!

If you know more about the topic, feel free to add.
You don't hear much about this thing here.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Women want an ambitious man after his ship has come in. They have zero interest in supporting you working long hard hours, in order to hopefully make that someday happen, while they sit alone at home.

That’s entirely untrue

 

[Dash Riprock]

To add to that, women will always come back if they genuinely like you.
I’ve had my share of fk-ups, women will come back Likely once, maybe twice if you’re good/lucky.
Rarely a third time.

True. In most cases however, they "come back" to test the water to see if they could still land you. A more aggressive form of breadcrumbing. Once you show any interest, they bolt again. If things were so great and exciting (in their mind) in the first place, they wouldn't have dumped you.

 

[Gamisch]

True. In most cases however, they "come back" to test the water to see if they could still land you. A more aggressive form of breadcrumbing. Once you show any interest, they bolt again. If things were so great and exciting (in their mind) in the first place, they wouldn't have dumped you.

I agree 100%. I believe attraction for wonen is extremely black and white. And if you are in some kinda grey area...you are given a that's based on weak fundamentals( aka she gives you a 20% shot at her kitty cat. )

As long as you don't show interest, she'll keep you as " an option ". Show some interest? She puts you all the way back in line again...ask me how I know..

 

[Gamisch]

Women want an ambitious man after his ship has come in. They have zero interest in supporting you working long hard hours, in order to hopefully make that someday happen, while they sit alone at home.

Yeah, to us men women are like any other beautiful creature or phenomenon in nature...

At some point we gotta come to terms with the facts tho...better to be a WINNER and pick one at the finish line than to hope that one will " like you for you" .

 

[Hal9000]

That’s entirely untrue

That was certainly my experience. When younger and working a lot all I heard was how I was a workaholic, etc from women who wanted me to be texting or whatever with them all day and running around with them at night. Now that I'm in a good place financially and can do those things suddenly those complaints have dried up, and they are happy to be with someone who is financially secure. I'm sure there are exceptions but that was how most of my 20s and 30s went.

 

[Divorced w 3]

That was certainly my experience. When younger and working a lot all I heard was how I was a workaholic, etc from women who wanted me to be texting or whatever with them all day and running around with them at night. Now that I'm in a good place financially and can do those things suddenly those complaints have dried up, and they are happy to be with someone who is financially secure. I'm sure there are exceptions but that was how most of my 20s and 30s went.

Depends what you want in life. It’s a preposterous statement to say that a woman won’t stand by you. I think you’re confusing their complaints about attention seeking for ditching you entirely. If they did in fact ditch you entirely, can you stop to say thank you to the universe for getting them out of your life? However, given the way you wrote this post, I hope you’re not saying that your money is how you are attracting and keeping women.