After hearing my friend say this, I am very scared of relationships

[El Payaso]

She has been living with a guy for about two years and she has started asking him......."when are we going to get married?"

And he was like........."I have to save up for the ring" And she then says...."Why can't you just put the ring on your credit card?


LOL. That does it. I want a permanent friends with benefits for the rest of my life. Lol.

 

[Jack89]

You don't base or over generalize every relationship based on one dumb relationship. Not all basketball players play like Lebron. Not all cars drive like Hondas. The world ain't that black and white, the specific or type of girl he's in a relationship with is the one he is attracted to or attracted. Does not mean your future girlfriend will be the same.

 

[El Payaso]

You don't base or over generalize every relationship based on one dumb relationship. Not all basketball players play like Lebron. Not all cars drive like Hondas. The world ain't that black and white, the specific or type of girl he's in a relationship with is the one he is attracted to or attracted. Does not mean your future girlfriend will be the same.

Yeah, you're right. I know. Just made me feel a little shifty when she told me that.

 

[user43770]

AWALT is a safe way of thinking going into every relationship. Sure, they can be like that to varying degrees, but vetting for marriage should be a long process. Make them prove they aren't like that.

 

[El Payaso]

AWALT is a safe way of thinking going into every relationship. Sure, they can be like that to varying degrees, but vetting for marriage should be a long process. Make them prove they aren't like that.

What is AWALT?

 

[Mike32ct]

What is AWALT?

All women aren't like that.

 

[guitaronfire411]

I got my bipolar ex a ring but then her interest seemed to gradually disappear. Would that be anti-challenge?

 

[Omerta]

lol, why are you scared of relationships from that? You can simply say no.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

All women aren't like that.

Mike, for the record, isn't AWALT: All Women Are Like That

vs. it's evil counterpart NAWALT: Not All Women Are Like That

got to use that acronym^^^^ twice today!

 

[GotED?]

Relationship is the testing ground of not just men, but human beings.

You haven't lived life until you learned to share it with another woman. This is the ultimate morphing and refinement of learning from becoming a man instead of remaining a boy. Remember in the ancient cultures there is always a 'Right of Passage' for boys - well, consider overcoming being dominated by a woman's frame the modern test into manhood.

Though lots of suffering and pain comes from being emotionally invested in another woman, and allowing her to let you feel something (other than those blue phucks on here who locks their princess in the castle's dugeon). But do you think life would be worth living without fulfilling those inner deepest needs of a man?

Some can say he can just 'pump & dump' - but are they really just avoiding the real issue of facing who they are in the mirror. That's what relationship really is - your partner forces you to look at who you are. You decide, do you like what you see (under-ripe AFC chump, or phucked up women beater like Noobolgy)? Do you want to be a better human being, or man??

This is life's most important journey - to become a better person (however you view it as you are obviously not happy with yourself thus you are on this forum).

Yes, phuck all of you blue phucks who think this is a puussy post.

Be well.

Exodus