After-Breakup Life Woes - Serious Discussion

[omgwtfm8]

After 4 months of no in person contact, I ran into my ex last night.

Our serious long term relationship ended with me saying, "Fvck you, I don't ever want to see you again in my life, I wish i didn't meet you!"

She was just an attention ***** at the time. She begged and screamed and cried for me when I broke it off. I just had to break it off.

The last 4 attempts of contact since the break up has been from her, she messaged, called, tried to send a hate message when I replied with, "I don't know you anymore and I'm happy."

I randomly ran into her last night at a show, my windows were down, I beeped, said, "What's Up" and drove past. She was just speechless, didn't say a word. Her and her friend just looked like a deer caught in headlights.

The show was last night. She just had called me at 7:30pm tonight while I was eating dinner. I missed her call. She used her house phone. I called back at 9:30pm, her sister had said she went to sleep awhile ago so she must had called me before she fell asleep.

I forgot about her, now I'm wondering what she wants. I get this wierd feeling in my stomach... Life hectic now, This breakup had changed me so much, I'm wondering if she's a new person now. I know I am.

Life's crazy right now as I just entered the real world as I graduated in May.

I don't know how to feel about my ex. The only reason I'd want to talk to her is if i could get another chance I think.

Can anyone tell me stories of there exes, and contact, and events after a breakup?

 

[Cod3r]

SOunds like me and my ex-gf, we were terrible for each other but she just wouldn't leave me, so eventually I grew tired of all the fighting and the stress and just broke up with her...

No contact for about 2 months, then she'd call and we'd try to be friends just to fight again and eventually she came to visit me and we fvcked and continued as FB's for about 3 or so months off and on (once or twice a month) then I met a female that I had genuine feelings for and told her i didn't wanna fvck anymore, she went and got a bf and now well she's single and still contacts me...

I'm peacefully happy with my gf right now, no time for stalker ex's. I'm WAY past the 'want to give her a 2nd chance' stage, we were together for 2 years and the feelings of "has she changed" will go away once you replace the feelings she took when she left with happiness from another female... plain and simple....

I never forgot about my ex, even when out being single and fvcking until I met my gf and she filled the void left by my ex...


-Cod3r

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Hell, I worked at the same company as my ex for a year after we broke up. We ran into each others in the hallways or the cafeteria a few time and she'd drop a couple of complements and wish for the "good old days." The thing is that I decided to move on and I stuck with it, no pressure. If you don't know how you feel about your ex after four months and have no idea what you really want, you'll probably pull your emotions in several different directions every other day until you do decide.