"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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after a kiss

downsickness06

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i know a girl that likes me and we just went out on a date last night. I gave her a kiss when i dropped her off. is it normal to just not talk the next day cause i really liked the kiss and she probly did too? I couldn't sleep whe ni got home cause the kiss like gave me a boost of energy cause i enjoyed it so much. If enjoyed it this much than u think she felt the same about it? I think we both need a day to let it set in. I know she likes me a lot from her friends and i like her a lot. The kiss was about 5 seconds long and we both smiled and looked in each others eyes after it. Does she not call me the next day cause she enjoyed or what?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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WC2

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You're overthinking. The kiss is not what is going to ultimately determine what happends next. Your neediness to see her again so soon, might though. Be careful.
 
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