"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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After a great date

In_the_Wild

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What a fvcking nuisance. I met this girl last week on the subway, after First of May, which is a holiday where I live. I was like: "so, you have a nice First of May" and we got talking. Got her number, and called her later. Met her by the docks, which are a nice place in Stockholm. After like 45 mins she says she does Tarot cards. I'm like, "can you tell my future, I never done that". She was like, no, the cards are at my place, and its a mess.

After a little conviction, she agreed to tell my future. After another half hour we were having sex. Now, we had this real nice evening, and I stayed like 5 hours and we had lots of fun. Then, I figured I was like so in, and I could call her like soon. That was this Saturday. I sent her a message Yesterday, like "goodnight sleepy ;)" and she answered "zzz ;)". But now I talked to her on the phone today, and she's happy and so, but I can feel her IF sinking, and I don't see her calling me.

I'm probably pushing it too much. I didn't send her a message right afterward, the same night. I guess this is what I should have done. Send her a message straight after I left her and maybe get her to start sending me messages, so its easier to work out what she's doing, and easier to set up the next date. And I should have let her wait longer before calling her at all, making her wonder about it.

The thing is, I didn't want her seeing it as a one night stand, cause she's real cute, and I want more of that. This is hard balancing man. Today she was busy, so I'm not calling her till like Sunday. I must stop thinking like this...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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blinkwatt

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Remember life is a lesson. Who cares if you have a slight slip up,just learn from it. Just cut off talking to her for awhile,day or two,or whenever she initiates it then you can talk to her. Best of luck to you!
 

st_99

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Same sh*t happened to me..banged a hottie on the first night after her showing total interest, met up once the next week and after that she was gone. I just bottom lined it and figured I wasnt her type relationship/dating wise but was good enough to bang. It happens, I've done it to chicks so I guess it works both ways..;)
 
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