azanon said:
Well, you're talking about a completely different problem there. Who'd marry a woman like that? My wife is like me, she loves her kid more than she loves herself.
If that really describes his situation, lets start a thread on that. That's a much bigger problem - that he'd marry a woman even remotely with a character like that.
My initial reaction to your posts in this thread was to respond in anger, but instead, I'll just offer this...........
Nobody gets married with the idea that their Bride will change into another person (or else they wouldn't get married in the first place). Every bad marriage has it's good points (good sex, same sense of humor, whatever). but divorce does something to a woman.
It's difficult to describe, but to me it's something like a worker who all of a sudden decides that their value increases once they are aware of their union rights. They could have been a crappy worker who deserved to be reprimanded, but as soon as they see their union contract explaining their rights, their opinion of themself changes to that as the most skilled, overworked, victimized producer on the planet, and that a legal document will support this opinion.
IMO, American women have a huge sense of entitlement when it comes to divorce and child support. A husband's financial state can be totally disected in order to determine EXACTLY how much he should pay, but women are NEVER required to provide monthly documentation of their "Child Expenses".
Enjoy the married life of warm fireplaces, popcorn and TV, because if it ends, the results of this bliss are of little concern to cold, legal documents