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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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After 1 week of NC, what's the best way to ask roommate out? Text, in-person call?

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After 1 week of NC, what's the best way to ask roommate out? Text, in-person, call?

I drove my housemate to a trip few weeks ago, she kept on look at me, walking behind me, touching shoulders when taking pic.

I gave her a little attention by talking to her when I run into her in the living room. She began signs of hard-to-get, walk like she's on the pedestal, dress pretty. But, she did not go on a trip the following week. :box:

I began NC immediately. I was out of the house late till 11pm week night, when she ran into me in the morning, I ignore her. If caught eye contact, I'd give her dirty look. I gather my housemate talk loudly in the living room and I leave her out.

She went to church with me last week, she first said yes, then no, then yes. My guy housemate supposed to come, but he backed out last min. She said in the car she will yell at him when she comes home. (anti-slvt defense?!) :trouble:

I drove 85mph on the way. She keep on fidgeting her figers during the sermon. I think she's nervous. She said she likes music played at my church on the way back.

I will ask her to church tomorrow. I want to KINO, kiss closed afterwards (in my BMW coupe). If it works, I am glad, if it doesn't, I am gonna NEXT her.

I have told the landlord this morning, I am taking her, ONLY friends, landlord said I don't give a dam.

Should I text her? I feel girls are more flake on text. I kinda want to knock on her door tmr before I leave to church, tell her I have told the landlord, and she's coming. Hopefully, that should take anti-slvt defense off and come along. What do you think?

TLDR: I want to ask my housemate out in person, is it appropriate to KINO once she's in my car? Or is that creepy?

Thanks!!
 
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Thanks, Mauser96. I am gonna walk to her room tmr and tell her to come along.

Should I try to reach her hand inside my car? I was thinking of doing a prayer holding her hand too. If that goes well, I will reach over to get K close.

Church is like 11am, I don't know if it's too early for all this.
 

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WTF????:rolleyes:
 

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Just walked to her room, she didn't wake up. I talked to her behind the door. My voice was nervous.

She said "right now? I am not awake."
I said "I already told the landlord, we are going now"
She half laughlying said "now?"
I said, "Let's hurry up and get going."
Then, she said "Now?! emmm, well it's ok, thanks."

Dam, I screwed up! arhhhhg!
 
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