"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Been reading a lot now and about to start applying all these in a West African country.
Been approaching for sometime now with some success but let's take this to another level by approaching the beautiful ones we see.
From 7 and above. That way I'll learn and adapt my game faster.
Cheers to success...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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29/10/2023
1. Approach
Did an approach just to talk. I wasn't interested in her but just did it for practice sake.
She was watching her phone and walking at the same time when I approach her
Me: why is a cute girl like you watching her phone and walking at the same time
Her: It's not good to do that.
Me: Nope.
Her: Thank you
Me: I guess you're off to buy something
Her: I'm heading home
Me: Stop for a minute and lemme talk to you
Her: I don't do that. I never do that.
Me: I understand that people don't normally approach you to talk to you but (at this point I stopped walking) that's how we make new friends. You don't make friends.?
Her: (Stopped walking and leaned against a parked car) I don't make friends and I don't have friends ........ Blah blah blah
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Some fluff talk about friendship and she doesn't have friends and she doesn't make friends. At this time I gave the "are you serious face". (Who goes through the world not making friends).
I even asked if she has a boyfriend which she said "Yes". She gave me some face and eyes like I'm not interested.
And I told her "I'm not asking because I'm interested in having a romantic relationship with you but just asking because you said you don't have friends."
I got her name but didn't number close because I wasn't interested.
I fist bumped her when we were about leaving to our separate ways.. Crazy.
That was fun
 
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