"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Afraid of rejection?

BadAssMoFo

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For those of you afraid of rejection...


check out people's sexiest man alive issue which came out in november.

George Clooney, who was dubbed the title, in the midst of an interview....


talked about STILL getting rejected...


even though he has earned an oscar, is absolutely rolling in cash and recognition, has a killer intelligence, wit, and personality..and considered by MANY to be a good lookin dude.

he talks about how EVEN NOW, when he asks some women out, they say no.



Don't think it's you.

It may be, but it very well may be them.

Don't spend your time....better yet, don't WASTE your time analyzing something if you felt good about it to begin with.


just move on with it, and remember....even the "sexiest man alive" gets his ass handed to him sometimes
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Please. The guy's being modest. If a chick turns him down it's because either they didn't know who he was, or they were involved/married.
 

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Zone20 said:
Please. The guy's being modest. If a chick turns him down it's because either they didn't know who he was, or they were involved/married.
Man...does Clooney think we are that stupid? If I was the guy doing the interview.....it would have been soooooo hard not to start laughing out loud.
 

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Take from it what you will.

Either way, it makes for a hell of an untouchable mindset.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJ_in_making

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Yea, probably 1 out of 10,000 rejections though but point well taken. Believe it or not there may be some women who hate famous guys.... remember there is someone out there w/ any weird personality you can think of.
 
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