"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Afraid of rejection?

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For those of you afraid of rejection...


check out people's sexiest man alive issue which came out in november.

George Clooney, who was dubbed the title, in the midst of an interview....


talked about STILL getting rejected...


even though he has earned an oscar, is absolutely rolling in cash and recognition, has a killer intelligence, wit, and personality..and considered by MANY to be a good lookin dude.

he talks about how EVEN NOW, when he asks some women out, they say no.



Don't think it's you.

It may be, but it very well may be them.

Don't spend your time....better yet, don't WASTE your time analyzing something if you felt good about it to begin with.


just move on with it, and remember....even the "sexiest man alive" gets his ass handed to him sometimes
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Please. The guy's being modest. If a chick turns him down it's because either they didn't know who he was, or they were involved/married.
 
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Zone20 said:
Please. The guy's being modest. If a chick turns him down it's because either they didn't know who he was, or they were involved/married.
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Man...does Clooney think we are that stupid? If I was the guy doing the interview.....it would have been soooooo hard not to start laughing out loud.
 
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Take from it what you will.

Either way, it makes for a hell of an untouchable mindset.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yea, probably 1 out of 10,000 rejections though but point well taken. Believe it or not there may be some women who hate famous guys.... remember there is someone out there w/ any weird personality you can think of.
 
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