Afraid of losing momentum

[One on One]

I'm currently working on this one girl and here's what has happened:

- Met up at the club on 6/21 and did mad kino on the dancefloor...she was interested and I wanted to proceed, but her friend ****blocked.

- Had classes the next week so kept talking to her.

- Met up at the club on 6/28, but hardly got to hang out because she got kicked out and I had to leave early...talked on the phone a couple times that night.

- Classes are over...I talked to her Sunday night on IM.

Now, she's going on a trip to see her family and will be gone this weekend. She leaves tomorrow. Do you guys think I'm going to lose momentum on this girl and what should I do to keep IL up?

 

[trajhenkhet]

I use this analogy to help me when I feel I'm losing sight of things. You have a northstar that guide you to things that you want. Never lose site of this no matter what. Work hard for it daily. This work is the center of your life. Thing is, it has to be a goal, not a person Things go great for me in a relationship when I'm seemingly busy. Once I have extra free time and spend it on the lady they find me boring. Besides I've never heard of anyones hobby walking out on them

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Don't worry about loosing momentum. If there is real interest from her part, she'll really think about you while gone, and won't want to wait to see you when she gets back. Kind of "how can I miss you if you're not gone?"

 

[MR_PERFECT]

I say the momentum is lost. If the date on 6/28 were, you would have nothing to worry about. A connection has to be there before you two can be apart and have that same spark down the line.

 

[syemour]

This work is the center of your life. Thing is, it has to be a goal, not a person Things go great for me in a relationship when I'm seemingly busy. Once I have extra free time and spend it on the lady they find me boring. Besides I've never heard of anyones hobby walking out on them

Never thought of this. Very well said. I will take it and use it.