penkitten
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you mean this one?Latinoman said:
penkitten said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Afraid of getting pregnant?? I smell a rat....
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Update!!
Haven't been around for awhile due since I've been real busy, but I wanted to stop by and give an update on this thread.
I don't remember when I posted this (October???) but it turns out that after a good month and a half of "knowing" what was going on, this chick finally sends me a message on myspace telling me that she had just updated her myspace page to reflect her new "in a relationship" status showing that she has a boyfriend up north, and didn't want me to hear it from anyone else. She was invited to a party I was having and told me that she was still planning on attending the party, so I just replied something to the effect of "Congrats, hope it works out for you, see you saturday"
We agreed to remain friends, and I see her from time to time socially and business wise. We have mutual friends and lately her best friend has been probing me for info about my social life, which is kind of funny considering she has her own thing going on now. My last correspondence with her was an email where she was getting jealous about the 20 yr old who likes me who is in town visiting. CHICKS!
Anyways, point is, TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS FELLAS! It will lead you in the right direction 99.999999% of the time. I wasn't really emotionally invested in this one, so it isn't a big deal, but it's a great feeling to know that you can spot a chick's BS a mile away. Took me a long time to get there, but I honestly feel like I am a better person for having this knowledge.
This chick also expressed how much she "missed me" on her last email, so I wouldn't be surprised if she comes back for more eventually. If I get more pu$$y out of it.so be it, but I'm not holding my breath. Chicks are a dime a dozen. Enjoy them for what they are worth!
Haven't been around for awhile due since I've been real busy, but I wanted to stop by and give an update on this thread.
I don't remember when I posted this (October???) but it turns out that after a good month and a half of "knowing" what was going on, this chick finally sends me a message on myspace telling me that she had just updated her myspace page to reflect her new "in a relationship" status showing that she has a boyfriend up north, and didn't want me to hear it from anyone else. She was invited to a party I was having and told me that she was still planning on attending the party, so I just replied something to the effect of "Congrats, hope it works out for you, see you saturday"
We agreed to remain friends, and I see her from time to time socially and business wise. We have mutual friends and lately her best friend has been probing me for info about my social life, which is kind of funny considering she has her own thing going on now. My last correspondence with her was an email where she was getting jealous about the 20 yr old who likes me who is in town visiting. CHICKS!
Anyways, point is, TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS FELLAS! It will lead you in the right direction 99.999999% of the time. I wasn't really emotionally invested in this one, so it isn't a big deal, but it's a great feeling to know that you can spot a chick's BS a mile away. Took me a long time to get there, but I honestly feel like I am a better person for having this knowledge.
This chick also expressed how much she "missed me" on her last email, so I wouldn't be surprised if she comes back for more eventually. If I get more pu$$y out of it.so be it, but I'm not holding my breath. Chicks are a dime a dozen. Enjoy them for what they are worth!
Victory Unlimited
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Yo Str8up,
Nice update, bruh. I think it's always important to let the fellas know how your projects (missions) wrap up. I think it helps us all validate the things we've learned here, and/or to discover more nuiances to better ourselves.
March on.
Nice update, bruh. I think it's always important to let the fellas know how your projects (missions) wrap up. I think it helps us all validate the things we've learned here, and/or to discover more nuiances to better ourselves.
March on.
And the other lesson here is that if you're not "walking the line" on........ whatever, dont give away obvious signs like she did. Of course the way to go about accomplishing that would require a dedicated thread, at a minimum.STR8UP said:
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The above should tell you that she is sexing another dude!STR8UP said:
Apprehensive about pregnancy because she wants to know who's the baby's daddy without a DNA test!
She don't want you to eat her because she has sperm from another dude in there!!!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Sex == relationship.
It's that simple. When a woman no longer wants to have sex, she is saying to you that she no longer values her relationship with you. You can try to lay your cards out on the table to the effect that as a precondition to your emotional intimacy, that you require the physical intimacy, and that absent that, you will be on the lookout to get that intimacy elsewhere.
As for the coincidence of going back to her hometown to watch football, how many women are that big of fans of football independently (i.e., not just because their boyfriends are fans)?
It's that simple. When a woman no longer wants to have sex, she is saying to you that she no longer values her relationship with you. You can try to lay your cards out on the table to the effect that as a precondition to your emotional intimacy, that you require the physical intimacy, and that absent that, you will be on the lookout to get that intimacy elsewhere.
As for the coincidence of going back to her hometown to watch football, how many women are that big of fans of football independently (i.e., not just because their boyfriends are fans)?
This one is a football fan with or without a boyfriend, I can tell you that. That's another part of the reason why I would never get involved seriously with her. I like chicks who are into girly things, not watching a bunch of sweaty ass men chasing each other around in the grass.MatureDJ said:
It's funny cause when we were "seeing" each other she made a comment one time how the fact that I am not into football could be a "problem". HA! It's the other way around woman!
I'm not really the kind of person who likes spending a lot of time with chicks I have sexed/dated in the past, but maybe I can turn a new leaf here and try to keep a friendship without things being awkward. I kinda doubt it will work with this one knowing that she still tries to stay up to date about my business and knowing how she gets insanely jealous over nothing, but we shall see.
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Man, when I want to eat a steak, I go for it - if it's right there laid out smoking and juicy right on the table. That's gut, I don't rationalize - it is human it is natural, It's what I WANT. THE GUT DOES NOT LIE!
When I see a pretty hot girl, I wanna hit it right then and there. Girls think the exact same way. They see chocolate cake, ice cream, whatever dessert..They want it. When they see some hot dude, they want him to f*ck her brains out and cook him dinner afterwards so he can stay with her. THE GUT DOES NOT LIE!
However, if a girl were to be sleeping with one guy "out of duty" and was probably doing some other dude... (women think logically, despite myths) she'd probably want to keep track of who she's doing with...Condoms. A girl especially one where you have plenty of sex will allow unprotected sex after a certain time that the both of you have determined that you are clean. Girls want the real k*k, especially from someone they like.
I don't advocate unprotected sex especially for new girls, but girls who are physically attracted to you will want your k0k
When I see a pretty hot girl, I wanna hit it right then and there. Girls think the exact same way. They see chocolate cake, ice cream, whatever dessert..They want it. When they see some hot dude, they want him to f*ck her brains out and cook him dinner afterwards so he can stay with her. THE GUT DOES NOT LIE!
However, if a girl were to be sleeping with one guy "out of duty" and was probably doing some other dude... (women think logically, despite myths) she'd probably want to keep track of who she's doing with...Condoms. A girl especially one where you have plenty of sex will allow unprotected sex after a certain time that the both of you have determined that you are clean. Girls want the real k*k, especially from someone they like.
I don't advocate unprotected sex especially for new girls, but girls who are physically attracted to you will want your k0k
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.