afraid of commitment

[JohnElDonJuan]

whatsup everyone,

I have just recently noticed something about myself. Whenever girls made it really easy for me I don't do my 50%, I think it's because I have a fear of commitment and settling with a girl that isn't up to par with my standards, is this natural?(btw most that girls that make it easy for me are either average or ugs.)

 

[ThugLove]

Very Natural

usally if a girl has high IL in me it actually kind of turns me off, Like I can get her if I really wanted to at any time, So I dont care about spitting game or anything

This also works the other way around, IF a girl has low IL in me, I might pursue her more even if the girl with HIGH IL looks better

 

[sAxyguy83]

If you're not sure she's right for you, you're probably right. When you find a girl that IS right for you, you'll know it.

 

[JohnElDonJuan]

but it's this same feeling and pickiness that keeps me from getting women too and that keeps me a virgin I wonder should I just settle for a second **** a girl and lose it so I can finally tell people that im not one without lie-ing(so what im tired). I think If I settle(for a second) those girls can be pivots to help me jump up to the better looking women.

 

[ThugLove]

i dont like abou tmy viriginity


I think if word gets out

girls will want to take yo virginity

 

[JohnElDonJuan]

what f'ing planet do you live on? when I find out I'm booking a flight to the nearest takeoff... Well where im from if your a virgin you deserve no respect, you deserve no help in your problem, you are a loser. you are nothing, in here head she thinks you get no girls so you get no me, you must be a dud in bed. Thats from my experience thats why it's such a curse to so many men and me.

 

[ThugLove]

i dont know.......

girls like to **** virgins

 

[JohnElDonJuan]

where do you live and are you in college and what type of girls are they so I can find them

 

[ThugLove]

your thinking that if a girl finds out you have no experience she will be turne doff? i dont get it

 

[JohnElDonJuan]

im not thinking thats how my life is. Every girl that was ever interested in me usually loses her interest once she found out from her friends.(my bad reputation,of being a virgin, gets around quick) The only time they don't is if they are desperate ugs.

I also wasn't being sarcastic about the questions i asked in my prior post can you please answer them?

 

[ThugLove]

not in college, west coast nigga

 

[JohnElDonJuan]

figures im an east coast "nigga"