"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Afraid girlfriend will break up with me

rdf63

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Time heals all wounds. She already nows about it, what she decides to do is out of your hands and don't let it bother you.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SmoothTalker

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Now Bible, I hope you were just using that line as a warning to your girlfriend. Why would you go back to an ex (which you've preached against), let alone one that felt the need to act out and publicly humilate you because she didnt' get her way?
 

Bible_Belt

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You're right; that was mostly a tactic, but it works. I still talk to the ex as well, and the current gf knows it. Fear of replacement keeps any woman on her best behavior - unfortunately for the OP, that fear is working in reverse against him. btw, I don't really go back to ex GFs, but I do tend to keep them as FBs.
 

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What you did was just in fun and was in no way cheating. Should you have told your gf? No because it was not a big deal whatsoever.

Now that your gf knows then she should be a little mad but will get over it.
 
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